Anyone still getting frisky with DH???

Germangirl86 · October 2010

I don't know who is lucky enough to have better sex during pregnancy but I think that is just a lie!

DH is still like a 15 year old boy when he looks at me (which I should feel lucky about) but I want nothing to do with that right now! I think I am to the point I am cutting DH off until LO is born I hurt everywhere, I am tired, I feel like a whale...why on earth would I be in the mood for anything but comfort foods and sleep?? lol

So December mamas....anyone lucky enough to still want sex?

CFH79 · October 2010

I don't know about "want" but he gets it about once a week. I do occasionally still feel frisky and I make sure he gets some when I do.

tattooedgwen · October 2010

No problems in the friskiness department over here.

Lynball · October 2010

unfortunately, it's slowing down. LO is so big now that he just gets in the way, making FI weird about things. When we do get there, it's fantastic... but that might just be because it's not as often as before. When you do it less, you appreciate it better, lol!

I am still the pursuer, but I always was. I have only been with FI, so maybe I'm just addicted or something. Embarrassed

KJKNAJ · October 2010

DH can't bring himself to do it with the 28lb watermelon in the way, knowing it's his daughter. It's just all too weird for him, lol.

erind0213 · October 2010

I am actually more in the mood then I think he is.

I am trying to also stress to him to get it while he can because once the baby comes, it will be at least 6 weeks till there is any action.

It has a lot to do with timing. I got upset last night because I was hoping he was in the mood, but he went to the shooting range and didn't get home till 9pm which is when I start getting ready for bed and don't really want to be bothered.

We shall see if there is any luck tonight.

PunkyBooster · October 2010

I am, but I am having a hard time climaxing, which is annoying as hell.

Germangirl86 · October 2010

We have been pretty good up until a few weeks ago( a few times a week), I think I really just filled out and now its more like sumo wresling then sex...just throw the weight from one side to another lol.

Buggygirl84 · October 2010

PunkyBooster:
I am, but I am having a hard time climaxing, which is annoying as hell.

This. My belly is too in the way to allow me to get into a good position. Plus, due to the relaxin in my hips, if "the deed" takes too long, I just start to ache. As it is, my husband has to move my legs for me cuz I can't anymore.

curlydoglover · October 2010

Yes please. It's still not as often as I'd like. Some days we're both in the mood but just too damn tired. LOL

february292008 · October 2010

still in the mood...all the time...it's getting uncomfortable now but the ending is fantastic lol (sorry tmi)

minimonstersmum · October 2010

tattooedgwenneh:
No problems in the friskiness department over here.

this

smiles325 · October 2010

Yes and I don't think it will stop till I am told I need to stop or when baby girl comes. It's definitely a lot more uncomfortable and more difficult to climax but it's still so fun and we both enjoy it. (We're definitely looking forward to when there's no baby in my belly haha)

If I think I'll have any difficulty climaxing, we have made a deal that in return, he'll just massage my body. My hips, back, feet whatever and all of it if I want. Honestly, sometimes that's way more worth it than the big O. So I encourage any and all of you ladies to bargain sex for him/massage for you!

moonpie90 · October 2010

I still get in the mood even more in the past couple weeks and of course Dh is always up for it however the doctor told us last week we were cut off! that means no sex for at least 12 weeks! ugh that seems sooo long and poor Dh his face was priceless when i told him we couldn't do that anymore. it should be great when we can again!!! Embarrassed

Kellina · October 2010

KJKNAJ:
DH can't bring himself to do it with the 28lb watermelon in the way, knowing it's his daughter. It's just all too weird for him, lol.

DH says this too- it's too weird when they start moving around in there. Plus pregnant sex hurts like a b!tch and I just can't!!!

scrh2010 · October 2010

We don't as often as we used to... It hurts and he's a little weirded out by my belly. But I still do... other things... for him so he stays happy =P Though we are thinking about picking back up in a few weeks to try to start convincing this little guy to make his appearance before mommy has to be induced lol!

RSClementine · October 2010

Last time was a couple of weeks ago on our anniversary, and that will probably be it. We were laying facing each other kissing and LO kicked DH hard, it was pretty funny, and somewhat difficult to keep going with such a strong reminder that there is a little guy hanging out in there.

Right now the combination of my snoring and poison ivy have exiled DH to the guest room, so we aren't even sleeping in the same room anymore. I do miss him, but I am in a pretty sorry state right now.

cc605 · October 2010

H keeps asking and I'm just so tired and not in the mood. I told him wait until 37 weeks when I have to suck it up and want to get the cervix soft.

sil222 · October 2010

We can't, because of my bleeding issues, and the low lying placenta we have been told no more, in addition i don't exactly feel sexy, i think about it then think LO and possible starting the bleeding up again that quickly gets me out of the mood.

vandm1107 · October 2010

We're still getting frisky a few times a week & I have no objections!

Germangirl86 · October 2010

I think at 37 weeks I may have my motivation back as well.... Then he will have more then enough bc I will be ready to get this little guy out! Scary to think that not that long of a time away!

lizsites · October 2010

meghankinley:
I wish...I feel so bad, I am just overwhelmed with work, feeling so tired, and everything else. Poor SO. We used to do it A LOT. I think he is resorting to some computer videos...poor guy. I need to do something to make it up to him, ideas?

Well it doesn't have to be SEX-sex. I was horny as hell when I first got pregnant, and the sex was absolutely AMAZING, but now I'm just roly-poly and tired, and frankly, if I were presented with a plate of cheese and crackers or a romantic sexy evening with DH, I'd take the crackers hands down... But I digress.

I try and do other special little... aah... *favors* for DH a couple times a week tho, because I sort of feel bad for DH too. Just because I have the sex drive of a fence right now, doesn't mean that he does also, you know? So I still do what I can do to help him out.

Moonbeam828 · October 2010

Things are pretty boring at our house. On the rare occasion I am in the mood, DH is never home. And I complain so much about my hip pain, I think he wouldn't even dare to ask. I need to suck it up though, because our current dry spell plus 6 weeks pp is a looooong time.

MrsMandi · October 2010

I'm actually finding that we are doing it more now that I'm pregnant. We're living with the inlaws temporarily while some home reno's are getting done and we are finding it fun to sneak around and sometimes even go back to our house for a trist. Big Smile

DaisyCakes18 · October 2010

laura101:
I am way to tired. I still give it up about once a week...just for DH's sake though. I am way to big and tire so easily that I can't get off anyways. I just let my husband have his way with me and try to participate as much as possible.

This. Plus everything is so sensitive that it just feels uncomfortable...not necessarily painful, but not really pleasurable, either.

janneann1127 · October 2010

ugh, i want it so much more! but it's hard to do with the belly so we've resorted to other things.. so yes, still some friskiness!!

chargerwest · October 2010

It comes and goes.. i wasnt very frisky the couple months leading up to the baby shower oct 3rd.. all i could think about was LO and the shower and the nursery ALL THE TIME on the mind! Now that everything is coming together we have been frisky a couple times a week which makes him a happy camper!

xxbabycakesxx · October 2010

Germangirl86:

I don't know who is lucky enough to have better sex during pregnancy but I think that is just a lie!

DH is still like a 15 year old boy when he looks at me (which I should feel lucky about) but I want nothing to do with that right now! I think I am to the point I am cutting DH off until LO is born I hurt everywhere, I am tired, I feel like a whale...why on earth would I be in the mood for anything but comfort foods and sleep?? lol

So December mamas....anyone lucky enough to still want sex?

we havent had sex for about a month! ive lost my mojo and my back/pelvis has been killing me so i cant even open my legs wide enough anyway lol poor dh... hes been working out and playing on his xbox more often and he says that helps take his mind of sex lol

mommiro · October 2010

I think I'm in the same boat with a few other PP...I try to give in about once a week maybe once every 10 days. I told him to let me know if he wants it and I'll oblige but he's too much of a gentleman to ask so I always have to initiate. So, once a week it is...I do climax but my uterus contracts so much afterwards I rather stop before the big "o". I think he has a couple of more treats and then he's cut off until 2011

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