First of all congrats!!! My nieces are 13 months apart and they love it. They are best friends and they share clothes and love each other like twins. Look at it this way if you only planned on having two you get through the diaper years fast!
Not to get all religious but God has a plan for us all?. Good Luck and Congrats!
I am feeling so many emotions right now. No I was not on bc I was trying to lose weight because I am in the military. We had an incident where the condom broke and I took the morning after pill. I am so worried now bc I go to school full time and I am suppose to go to graduate next yr. I tried to breast feed, but I was too dry. I am concerned about the negative comments I will get from the dear family/ friends. thank u for all your support. Really do not know who to let the family know.
First of all congrats!!! My nieces are 13 months apart and they love it. They are best friends and they share clothes and love each other like twins. Look at it this way if you only planned on having two you get through the diaper years fast!
Not to get all religious but God has a plan for us all?. Good Luck and Congrats!
Thank You and no you are not being too religious. Your words are what I need now. My husband is at work so I am taking this all in by myself right now.
LOL @ everyone telling her congrats and she's like scared...
Anyway. Well... these things happen, you know. : I'm sure it's going to be tough, but not impossible. And you know, there are other options such as adoption and abortion, should you really panic and feel like there isn't any way you could raise two so close together.
If it helps - remind yourself how long pregnancy takes. Remember that this baby won't be here for almost a whole year! And you don't have to tell family/friends for at least 3 months, so by then some of the shock will wear off.
Congratulations! I'm totally jealous, and who cares what your family thinks/says, you are the one who it will impact and besides, once the baby is here no one will care, it's a new baby!!!!
I am feeling so many emotions right now. No I was not on bc I was trying to lose weight because I am in the military. We had an incident where the condom broke and I took the morning after pill. I am so worried now bc I go to school full time and I am suppose to go to graduate next yr. I tried to breast feed, but I was too dry. I am concerned about the negative comments I will get from the dear family/ friends. thank u for all your support. Really do not know who to let the family know.
If your family are jerks about it, don't listen. Children are a blessing. It is a lot to take in now, but you are gonna get through it and be just fine. We're rooting for you! GL!
I am feeling so many emotions right now. No I was not on bc I was trying to lose weight because I am in the military. We had an incident where the condom broke and I took the morning after pill. I am so worried now bc I go to school full time and I am suppose to go to graduate next yr. I tried to breast feed, but I was too dry. I am concerned about the negative comments I will get from the dear family/ friends. thank u for all your support. Really do not know who to let the family know.
((hugs)) You will be fine. There may be a raised eyebrow or two from your family and friends but try not to let it bother you. It happens.
I asked about BF, bc, etc because I am BF and haven't had a period yet so I'm always a little concerned in the back of my mind that I might be pregnant again, too. I don't want you to think I was making any judgements about your situation!
Congratulations! Hopefully the military isn't to nasty to you about it. I know they can be kind of hard to deal with some times. Good luck. Your babies will be so lucky to have each other.
Congratulations! A baby is a blessing no matter where/when/how. If my doctor hadn't advised me to wait a year to get pregnant again, I'd go for it right now too. Just think, you probably already have all of the supplies you need!
OMG! Here you just get used to being a mommy and wham you are going to be hit with hormones/ pregnancy again. I can't imagine the overwhelming feeling that you must have.
It's a compliment though in a way... you must be an awesome mommy!! So, you are being blessed again and your LO is being blessed with a close sibling. Your family is being blessed with a new member. I know you are fearful, but they will probably supportive, shocked, but happy for you.
You will be a pro...you watch! Take it all in. Process with your DH. It will work. You will can still go to school. It will be a lot to take in, but you can do it!!
I am going through the same thing ...maybe . I keep taking tests that say I am , but the blood work is negative . The doctor thinks there may something wrong with horomones ( Like medapause ) sp-sorry . I am proably gonna need an ultrasound . So before you get to excited or nervous or both , double check ....
Good Luck
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LOL @ everyone telling her congrats and she's like scared...
Anyway. Well... these things happen, you know. : I'm sure it's going to be tough, but not impossible. And you know, there are other options such as adoption and abortion, should you really panic and feel like there isn't any way you could raise two so close together.
If it helps - remind yourself how long pregnancy takes. Remember that this baby won't be here for almost a whole year! And you don't have to tell family/friends for at least 3 months, so by then some of the shock will wear off.
I am not going to lie it has crossed my mind. But after so many of you ladies reminded me how this is a blessing and so has a close friend of mine. God thinks I am ready for another LO and this is his plan. So I am keeping it, and yes it will be hard, but somehow my family and I will survive. DH is rooting for a boy. I want another princess so it can be 3 girls vs the DH, and we can always get our way
LOL @ everyone telling her congrats and she's like scared...
Anyway. Well... these things happen, you know. : I'm sure it's going to be tough, but not impossible. And you know, there are other options such as adoption and abortion, should you really panic and feel like there isn't any way you could raise two so close together.
If it helps - remind yourself how long pregnancy takes. Remember that this baby won't be here for almost a whole year! And you don't have to tell family/friends for at least 3 months, so by then some of the shock will wear off.
LOL @ everyone telling her congrats and she's like scared...
Anyway. Well... these things happen, you know. : I'm sure it's going to be tough, but not impossible. And you know, there are other options such as adoption and abortion, should you really panic and feel like there isn't any way you could raise two so close together.
If it helps - remind yourself how long pregnancy takes. Remember that this baby won't be here for almost a whole year! And you don't have to tell family/friends for at least 3 months, so by then some of the shock will wear off.
LOL @ everyone telling her congrats and she's like scared...
Anyway. Well... these things happen, you know. : I'm sure it's going to be tough, but not impossible. And you know, there are other options such as adoption and abortion, should you really panic and feel like there isn't any way you could raise two so close together.
If it helps - remind yourself how long pregnancy takes. Remember that this baby won't be here for almost a whole year! And you don't have to tell family/friends for at least 3 months, so by then some of the shock will wear off.
Thinking of you
Wow, how inappropriate.
No kidding! I thought the same thing.
I dont think its inappropriate at all!
I don't find it inappropriate, just pretty sh*tty to throw that out already. Let her absorb everything. I'm sure she is not naive to the options if that were to be her decision.
I think it is going to be hard, but I think you may really enjoy having them close together. Good luck with everything. You may get some nasty comments from family, but I'm sure that once they get over the initial shock, they will be super happy and excited. Try and enjoy it! You only get to be pregnant so many times in life!
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LOL @ everyone telling her congrats and she's like scared...
Anyway. Well... these things happen, you know. : I'm sure it's going to be tough, but not impossible. And you know, there are other options such as adoption and abortion, should you really panic and feel like there isn't any way you could raise two so close together.
If it helps - remind yourself how long pregnancy takes. Remember that this baby won't be here for almost a whole year! And you don't have to tell family/friends for at least 3 months, so by then some of the shock will wear off.
Thinking of you
Wow, how inappropriate.
Reminding women that they have options and not saying OMG CONGRATS in someone's face when they're scared and confused is not equivalent to inappropriate. Sorry, against your political views or not - adoption and abortion are real options available to women (thank God) that should not be swept to the side just because BABIEZ IZ FUN!@#$
And my heart goes out to you, OP. No matter what you choose, you'll know what you're doing. Women are powerful, capable, intelligent beings. If you wanna talk, PM me.
OP, this sounds like its getting way out of control (totally diverting away from you, which is rude since its your post).
I know your situation, I'm in it too. If you need to vent or talk, I'm all ears. I was terrified when I first found out! DH is in the Army and had already started his process to get out. So this was a total shock. But like I said, if you find you want to talk to someone else in the same boat, I'm here!
Once you calm down and absorb what has just happened (it may take you a few weeks to do so) then I think you'll see this for what it is- a blessing in disguise.
Having 2 babies is a wonderful thing. The love that you feel in your heart for your LO is multiplied by 2. Can you imagine that?
Although people may have a negative reaction at first, I wouldn't worry about it at ALL. It's your life and your babies. As long as you and DH have accepted and embraced it, then that's all that matters.
Good luck with everything... it always works out. Always.
I'm late to weigh in but I wanted to say good luck and congratulations. I am sure it will be a blessing once you get used to the idea- and you/we have practically a whole year to do so. I am in the same boat and testing on Saturday. Like others said, it will work out and there is a plan for us. Best wishes.
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Congrats, mama!!
If you can excuse my nosiness . . . Are you BF? On the mini-pill or anything? What made you decide to test?
First of all congrats!!! My nieces are 13 months apart and they love it. They are best friends and they share clothes and love each other like twins. Look at it this way if you only planned on having two you get through the diaper years fast!
Not to get all religious but God has a plan for us all?. Good Luck and Congrats!
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Congrats!!!
Thank You and no you are not being too religious. Your words are what I need now. My husband is at work so I am taking this all in by myself right now.
LOL @ everyone telling her congrats and she's like scared...
Anyway. Well... these things happen, you know. : I'm sure it's going to be tough, but not impossible. And you know, there are other options such as adoption and abortion, should you really panic and feel like there isn't any way you could raise two so close together.
If it helps - remind yourself how long pregnancy takes. Remember that this baby won't be here for almost a whole year! And you don't have to tell family/friends for at least 3 months, so by then some of the shock will wear off.
Thinking of you
Congratulations! I'm totally jealous, and who cares what your family thinks/says, you are the one who it will impact and besides, once the baby is here no one will care, it's a new baby!!!!
If your family are jerks about it, don't listen. Children are a blessing. It is a lot to take in now, but you are gonna get through it and be just fine. We're rooting for you! GL!
((hugs)) You will be fine. There may be a raised eyebrow or two from your family and friends but try not to let it bother you. It happens.
I asked about BF, bc, etc because I am BF and haven't had a period yet so I'm always a little concerned in the back of my mind that I might be pregnant again, too. I don't want you to think I was making any judgements about your situation!
Congrats! it will be fine, I'm sure!
OMG! Here you just get used to being a mommy and wham you are going to be hit with hormones/ pregnancy again. I can't imagine the overwhelming feeling that you must have.
It's a compliment though in a way... you must be an awesome mommy!!
So, you are being blessed again and your LO is being blessed with a close sibling. Your family is being blessed with a new member. I know you are fearful, but they will probably supportive, shocked, but happy for you.
You will be a pro...you watch! Take it all in. Process with your DH. It will work. You will can still go to school. It will be a lot to take in, but you can do it!!
Big Hugs to you! Congratulations
I am going through the same thing ...maybe . I keep taking tests that say I am , but the blood work is negative . The doctor thinks there may something wrong with horomones ( Like medapause ) sp-sorry . I am proably gonna need an ultrasound . So before you get to excited or nervous or both , double check ....
Good Luck
Wow, how inappropriate.
No kidding! I thought the same thing.
I don't find it inappropriate, just pretty sh*tty to throw that out already. Let her absorb everything. I'm sure she is not naive to the options if that were to be her decision.
I think it is going to be hard, but I think you may really enjoy having them close together. Good luck with everything. You may get some nasty comments from family, but I'm sure that once they get over the initial shock, they will be super happy and excited. Try and enjoy it! You only get to be pregnant so many times in life!
Reminding women that they have options and not saying OMG CONGRATS in someone's face when they're scared and confused is not equivalent to inappropriate. Sorry, against your political views or not - adoption and abortion are real options available to women (thank God) that should not be swept to the side just because BABIEZ IZ FUN!@#$
And my heart goes out to you, OP. No matter what you choose, you'll know what you're doing. Women are powerful, capable, intelligent beings.
If you wanna talk, PM me.
OP, this sounds like its getting way out of control (totally diverting away from you, which is rude since its your post).
I know your situation, I'm in it too. If you need to vent or talk, I'm all ears.
I was terrified when I first found out! DH is in the Army and had already started his process to get out. So this was a total shock. But like I said, if you find you want to talk to someone else in the same boat, I'm here!
Once you calm down and absorb what has just happened (it may take you a few weeks to do so) then I think you'll see this for what it is- a blessing in disguise.
Having 2 babies is a wonderful thing. The love that you feel in your heart for your LO is multiplied by 2. Can you imagine that?
Although people may have a negative reaction at first, I wouldn't worry about it at ALL. It's your life and your babies. As long as you and DH have accepted and embraced it, then that's all that matters.
Good luck with everything... it always works out. Always.
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