On Friday October 15th, Christopher Joshua King was born at 1:50 pm.
Around
1pm on Thursday my water broke (nobody tells you how gross it is!!
(haha) . Didn't start having contractions until about 6:30 pm, And it
is true you will know when you are having one! We headed to the
hospital around 1:30 am since our contractions were 2 1/2- 3min apart
and Debbie my midwife was more concerned about the nervousness in my husbands
voice. And told me later on I should have stayed home longer and boy I
wish I had!!!
I was stuck at 3min and 2 centimeters till about 7 am. I could not
seem to break the 3 minute mark or 2 centimeters and that is why I wish
I had been at home. They just seemed to get more intense and get
longer. Debbie "ignored" me and went to bed and told the nurses to
leave me alone and just let me labor. This is a very discouraging part
of the labor, even though I was not progressing I really was. I had to
keep reminding myself that this contraction is over, I never have to do
that one again. And with each contraction it brings me closer. Easier
said than done but try and keep that in mind.
Around 8 am Elise my other midwife showed up and also "ignored" me. My labor nurse
suggested I walk around more and I did. Around 9am Elise came in and
checked me. Found that I was a "good" 4 centimeters, she gave my
cervix a little flick (it feels as comfortable as it sounds!!). That
sounded discouraging but boy was I wrong. Things really starting
progressing, the labor was more intense and the contractions were a lot
longer.
Around 11:30 transition started, wow. That is intense and your body
wants to give up and your head wants you to give up and you wonder why
you would not receive any pain medication and you are exhausted! BUT
and I can not stress the BUT enough, your body is the most incredible
thing ever. You get yourself through it, without anybody. I did doubt
myself but I had such a wonderful support system, husband and midwife
that told me how great I was doing.
And when transition is over it is such a wonderful thing, you get
little breaks, I got to sleep for a couple minutes at a time. Not long
after I started to push and thought I was hiding it from Elise, she
giggled and joked about it later on. I was following my body, I didn't
force anything I just did it somehow. And this still boggles my mind
that your body is in such control even when you think you are not! At
one pm, I really started to push, I did my squatting and then they had
me use the a towel and bar since his head would not move from the
pelvic bone. Once again, really hard, hurts, your exhausted and it
just hurts!! But my body kept going and let me sleep between pushes,
they put a mirror in front of me and I got to watch the progress. And
it was the most beautiful thing EVER. After I pushed him all the way
out they put him immediately on my stomach and breast. About 30
minutes after he latched on and began to breastfeed. I cry now
thinking about how beautiful that moment is. I could never describe
how beautiful that moment is. I could say that moment makes everything
worth it!!
All I can say is trust your body, especially for those of you that are
going all natural. You can do it and it is worth every hour and every
pain that you go through!!!! Sorry this was so long but I was so
excited to share this everybody.
Good luck to you ladies and your upcoming births!!!
Also good luck with yoga and birth classes , wish you guys only the best!
Re: Christopher was born!-birth story (kinda long)
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Ah, my birthplace. I am partial to that hospital, unfortunately I am going to be giving birth at St. Vincents- My Dr. wouldn't bend for YNH.
Thanks for sharing your story!