So today I am going in for my appointment. They asked at my last one if I wanted to test to see if the baby had anything wrong. (ex: downs syndrome, ect.) While I am on the fence about the test, it wouldn't change anything about my pregnancy. So my question is did you have the test (sorry I don't remember the name of the test)?
Like I said if it came back positive I would not terminate the pregnany, DH and I are 100% sure of that.
Re: OB appointment today
No, I did not have the test with either of my pregnancies. I felt the same as you, it was not going to make me terminate, and the test has a very high rate of false positives.
If I was high risk (over 35, etc.) then maybe I would have done something differently.
This. I've several friends who did this and had false positives. All it did was stress them out further.
With these tests, all they can do is give you the RISK that something is wrong-not anything definitive yet. They could say for example, "well, it looks like Baby has x . Y % of babies with x end up having Down syndrome." So that doesn't mean the baby would have it, just that the risk is higher.
So with that in mind, I didn't have it done. If there was something significant going on that we needed to know, I figured we would know at our anatomy scan around 20 weeks because any physical signs of health issues would be there at that time.
Also, while I think it is totally fine to be curious about these issues and want to know even if one is NOT interested in termination, I am still a worrier just in general. Thinking there is 'x' risk the baby MIGHT have something (not that he does, just that he might) wasn't worth it to me, because I wouldn't be able to enjoy the pregnancy until I knew more about if anything was going on.
Well I was and am over 35 and I didn't get the test. I felt the same as others.
By law they have to tell you about the test if you are over 35, but you aren't required to have it.