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I'm going to assume "dry spells" are not uncommon in 1st Tri...

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Yeah, uhm, cause with the way I feel so far with this pregnancy, there has been no BD'ing since FWP.

Am I the only one not in the mood? 

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Re: I'm going to assume "dry spells" are not uncommon in 1st Tri...

  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3

    We've got a dry spell here too.  I can deal with my changing body, but I have just felt so tired and full of m/s that I have no desire. 

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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    Haven't had sex since we concieved.

    Now of course, I'm not allowed to until our 20 week check, if even then. But even before that ban at 8 weeks, it wasn't happening between the nerves and the morning sickness.

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  • SonadoraSonadora member

    I was on pelvic rest until 12 weeks, then again from 16-19 weeks...so, very dry.

     

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  • ihearteddiebooihearteddieboo
    We are going through a tremendous dry spell.  I'm 28 weeks.  Poor DH. 
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  • jesmckennajesmckenna member
    I think we've had sex 3 times since I got pregnant, and I'm 36 weeks.  It's definitely not just you!
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  • eawebstereawebster
    Dry spell here too. Between nerves and feeling completely blah, DH has been a little neglected. I caved the other night because I just felt so bad for him, but it had been weeks!
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  • DowagerCountessofNJDowagerCountessofNJ
    We had sex for the first time since FWP on Sunday night.  I was hesitant after my BFP because of nerves.  It wasn't bad and no ill side effects (spotting, cramping) but I just haven't been in the mood.
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  • medblondemedblonde

    imagejesmckenna:
    I think we've had sex 3 times since I got pregnant, and I'm 36 weeks.  It's definitely not just you!

     This exactly. 

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  • theprincessPATtheprincessPAT

    I don't think DH and I had sex at all during the first tri.  We've only done it a couple times since then, too. 

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  • uklawgirluklawgirl member
    You are certainly not alone! I started out trying to get myself in the mood but now I am 26 weeks and I have absolutely NO desire. Luckily DH is scared something will happen (no matter how many times I try to reassure him) so at least he's not in the mood either. I do feel sorry for the guy though!
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  • ksyknelvr73ksyknelvr73 member
    I'm going to go with it's definitely not uncommon...we had sex twice in my whole first trimester, and then I got put on pelvic rest right after for partial placenta previa, and then just got released from that 2 weeks ago, and we've only had sex once since then. So yeah, 3 times total since I've gotten pregnant. Embarrassed
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  • spincat9spincat9 member
    Oh thank god...I started feeling bad like something was wrong with me and my relationship was in jeopardy!  Thanks ladies for sharing, I feel much more "normal" now.  DH has been totally supportive and not pressuring me at all, but I still felt bad about it.
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  • SpartanChick88SpartanChick88 member
    We've done it twice the whole pregnancy.  I was uncomfortable and he wasn't into it.  I am forcing him into it now though - this kid needs to vacate and the best way to get her out is the same way she got in!



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  • sakurasakura
    Same in our bedroom!  I have m/s in the evening, so there is no way either one of us is in the mood for BDing!  Hoping in a few weeks, the m/s will taper off!
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    I told DH we won?t be doing it until I?m at least out of the first tri (praying I make it that far!) Then we?ll see how I?m feeling and how the baby is doing and go from there.

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  • elbandas09elbandas09
    Nope you arent alone! Last PG I was always in the mood and now I am never ... I sure hope this changes!
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  • darkskyydarkskyy member
    imagemedblonde:

    imagejesmckenna:
    I think we've had sex 3 times since I got pregnant, and I'm 36 weeks.  It's definitely not just you!

     This exactly. 

    OMG, this is why I'm on this board and love you ladies.  I'm so glad I'm not alone. This, this, this.

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  • Matkinson08Matkinson08
    28w 4d here and in the midst of a dry spell ourselves.  Like a pp poster I was into it with my last pregnancy but this time around I am just blah.  When I work at it and really make myself get into it I enjoy myself, but I am too damn tired and I feel like crap most of the time so BDing is the last thing on my mind.
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