I was just wondering what some of your LO's were doing at this stage. My DS is about 11 weeks, and he seems like he's not really doing a lot of what the baby books say. He smiles and coos, but has no arm control or what appears to be no desire to bat at things, etc.. Plus, he's only able to stay up for about an hour at a time. What are other baby's doing?
Re: What is your baby up to?
My baby is almost 5 weeks- he coos and aahs and smiles, but no laughs yet and the smiles have only been once or twice. He bats at his toys, has turned over once, but that's it so far! He will turn on his side and he follows us with his eyes and we do tummy time. He's up a lot actually...2-3 hrs between naps in the day time, only 1 hr between in the early morning and late evening. He still sleeps a lot, but not through the night. He doesn't like the swing but likes the bouncy seat. He prefers to sleep on me and be on me most of the time. He seems to like laying on the floor on a blanket and just looking around and he likes my hair. He's started grabbing it and my necklaces. I'm excited to see more activity!
My LO is about 11 wks, she sleeps thru the night, and is awake mostly all day with a catnap thrown in here and there. She eats 31oz while she's awake, she bats at toys sometimes, follows sounds and things with her eyes and head, rolls on her side usually only when she's sleeping though. We do tummy time & she generally hates it, but does pretty well. She still has little fists except when she's eating, then she's got a death grip on my hands. She coos alot and smiles at us and her toys that make noise, pukes when she's strapped in the carseat, sticks her tongue out all the time, and she kindof makes laughing noises, but it's more of a happy gasping "eeee" sound than a laugh, and she enjoys when people whisper at her.
My LO is 5 weeks old, he is looking at things more, we've had a few half smiles, he grunts and makes noises, but I wouldn't say he was cooing or ahhing yet.
He sleeps 5.5 hours at a time at night, is awake during the day for a couple of hours at a time.
He makes lots of eye contact but doesn't really reach for anything or grasp anything.
Don't feel that way!! EVERY baby is different. You're probly right that he's an observer...and some babies are just chill- if he was behind you pedi would tell you! I bet he'll surprise you with some new "tricks" soon