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Just overheard my boss...

ravenorchidravenorchid
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My boss's door is open and I just heard her have this obnoxiously loud conversation, saying "Oh, when are you due?...Oh, November. How are you feeling? You must be huge."

I was due in November. I should be huge. It took all my willpower not to break down at my desk. I'm not looking forward to next month!

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  • stillbakingstillbaking member

    (((HUGS)))

    It sucks to have reminders like that. Especially at work.  

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    TTC#1 since May 2009
    PCOS * Hypothyroid

    Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

    Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    ((((hugs)))) I am so sorry!!!


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  • Kira98Kira98
    (Hugs)  The reminders seem to be everywhere.
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  • EmeraldEyedLadyEmeraldEyedLady
    I'm sorry you had to hear that.  I have tried to avoid any kind of reminders but it's so difficult to get away from all of them.  ((HUGS))

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  • jinx75jinx75
    big hugs!!!  I know what you're going through and it sucks!
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  • HappyLaLa0914HappyLaLa0914 member
    Ugh that sucks.  {{hugs}}
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  • TheGregory's07TheGregory's07
    Hugs,
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  • tigers413tigers413
    Hugs!!! Reminders suck. I am not looking forward to November too!
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  • itsmeginitsmegin
    Ouch! I am so sorry you had to hear that at work where you have to put on a brave face.
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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    Thanks, ladies! I love this board.
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  • la*bella*vitala*bella*vita

    Ugh stupid stupid boss!! So sorry you had to feel that today.

    Hugs.

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  • BlakeGBlakeG member
    ((hugs))  I'm sorry you had to hear that hun.
    Natural BFP - 2/13/10, Natural M/C - 3/9/10 (Missed m/c found at 8wks 4days) Prenatal B/W shows I'm a Beta Thal carrier & so is DH. Onto IVF w/PGD... Jan 2011 - IVF #1 - C/P Mar 2011 - IVF #2 - Day 5 PGD, no ET, 5 snow babies May 2011 - FET #1 - BFP!! Twins!!! 2/9/12 - Our precious miracles arrived! Baby A 7lbs 13oz & Baby B 5lbs 13oz
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  • carcrashheartcarcrashheart member
    ((hugs)) my EDD was november, and all i can think about is how big i should be right now. i have some friends that are due in november, and seeing how big they are doesnt help. sigh.
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  • Ryan&Kristin062009Ryan&Kristin062009 member
    ((big hugs)) I hate reminders :/
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I'm so sorry! Hugs!
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  • kerri_wookerri_woo
    I'm sorry...that stinks!  Don't worry, we'll be huge soon!
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  • cdibcdib

    Ohhh, I am so sorry.  November would have been my due date as well. 

    (((HUGS)))

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  • inlovewithBinlovewithB
    I am so sorry!! I can't imagine how hard it is to be getting closer and closer to your EDD. (((hugs)))
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    b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    Hugs!
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

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  • bryanandkatrinabryanandkatrina member
    I'm so sorry ((((hugs))))
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  • damabo80damabo80 member

    Hugs. I'm so sorry!

    The girl whose desk was next to mine shared the same EDD as me (with a boy...insert salt into wound), so people were ALWAYS walking by and doing the "PG talk" less than 2 feet from where I was. It SUCKED! I totally understand. May I recommend those noise-cancelling earphones combioned with an online music station? It got me through many a rough day...

     


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    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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