Today, my mom texted me that my cousin and his wife are pregnant. I immediately started to cry. Then she texts, "they are saying it happened their wedding night." (They got married in August). I just want to say fvck it. It's the first time I have felt so ANGRY about it. and I know its unreasonable but man am I p!ssed.
Re: I am an awful person
I'm sorry. I hate feeling that way.
Big hugs.
Big (((hugs))).
I felt the same way when we got the text from DH's cousin a few weeks ago. I got my second BFP on the day of their wedding, so it was even more of a blow. I literally felt like my heart was breaking when I heard they were pg.
It's so unfair.
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
BFP #4 5/8/11
BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
You are not an awful person. That is a completely natural feeling. Big hugs to you.
And to be honest, I find it a little odd when people feel the need to tell people about when it was they conceived.
Missed m/c 11.09 | Missed m/c 3.10 | We miss you & love you so.
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Formerly toddandjulie
BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12
There is no need whatsoever to share the fact that you conceived on your wedding night, unless you're bragging about it. Period.
They suck. You don't.
TTC since 3-2008: v/c repair 2009; BFP: 7-2010, m/c 8-2010, c/p 4-2011, BFP: 6-2011 EDD: 2-12-2012?
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Today I am pregnant & I love my baby!
I'm so sorry, and no, you are not an awful person.
* PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) *
* CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
* Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d *
* PG #7 BFP 12/21/11 - DD born 8/31/12 *
* DH Dx'd with balanced translocation in 2011 *