We are moving from Vermont to holmdel nj in 1 week.   I am starting lo in the little gym on the 25th or  26 th (whatever that weds. is).  And will be starting little rockers in their winter or spring session.
What else is there to do around the area?   
With the holidays coming up do they have special things going on in red bank?  Haunted woods? Or for Xmas - Santa parades,concerts, etc?   I need to stay busy and meet people.  Thanks in advance!                
                             
        
Re: Moving to Monmouth county/holiday happenings?
i am in basically the same situation as you. we moved here 2 years ago but because neither of us work in the area we haven't really met anyone or go out around here to often we usually travel to where our families live. but now with our new son we want to get involved in more local activities.
we did just go apple/pumpkin picking in colts neck and saw tons of signs for haunted woods, corn mazes thing like that. i guess this year i'll be paying more attention to what is here
 
if you ever want to get together when you move down let me know, our lo is was just born in aug so he is a bit younger than yours but we live right on the border of middletown and holmdel. good luck with your move!
middletown can be tricky when looking for homes there are some really nice sections and some really not so nice sections. holmdel is really nice with lots of big parks and outside spaces. tinton falls is a bit more south but still nice. and i'm not to sure about farmingdale, like i said we are still figuring out the area too
 
i just found this meetup and it looks like a ton more moms joined so maybe you will want to check it out too
https://www.meetup.com/Monmouth-Play-and-Learn-with-Me/
since our little man is so young i haven't really looked at any gyms yet but probably by christmas we'll be out and about with all those classes.
seriously let me know when you move down this way and if you want we can go exploring the area together!
by the way love the eagles jerseys
 i am a huge philadelphia fan both phillies and eagles!!!  
Butting in ladies :-)
I grew up in Belford/Middletown and now live in Hazlet so I can let you in on some things. Seasonal stuff to do: Casollo's (sp?) farms is the most widely known for pumpkin picking and hay rides. Holmdel Park is always a nice place to visit too. It is obviously a park - a LARGE one with walking/running paths and playgrounds and there is a farm on site that you can walk through and see the animals and even pet and be apart of the farming experience. PNC Bank arts Center also does holiday lights (however, I work there during the summer and they were unsure if they were going to do it this year or not) but if they do, it's a nice drive through.
Also, when I noticed you said you were going to look for a teaching job come next fall. When you start applying places, let me know where because some schools are notorious for not giving tenure and March/April is the best time to start looking for openings.
Any other questions feel free to PM me or ask away!
i think great adventure used to do a holiday light thing, but i'm not sure if they still do. casola farms is def something good for fall activities. also check out atlantic farms in wall twp (exit 98, only about 20-30 min depending on where in middletown), they have hayrides & a petting zoo. in march, belmar (also exit 98) has a huge st pats day parade, usually the first sunday in march. that's a lot of fun for kids & grownups. when the weather gets a bit warmer you should also check out the popcorn park zoo, cape may zoo, and turtleback zoo. keep an eye on app.com (the local newspaper) for different local events. a lot of towns in the area have special events where santa will appear and they usually post it on the website. welcome to the best county in the best state!