Having a rough day already

erinandbrockv · October 2010

I am just so sick of all this. This 2ww is killing me! I am now convinced it did not work, and I even cried the whole way to work. I feel just like I did last time, and my boobs are not even sore-they were last time though. I think I am just so sick of being devastated and sad, that I am convincing myself it will be bad news already. I am 4dp6dt. I know I am rambling, but I just can not feel positive when I don't "feel" like it worked. I guess I just need some encouragement.

dreamalotmp · October 2010

I'm right there with you (4dp). But, we both have to remember that stress does not help. I'm trying so hard to remember that right now and ya know... not stressing is a method that we can carry out that could help us get a BFP.

Hang in there. And I'd post a baby dust icon here but I don't know how to do that. So... baby dust to you!

madelyn07 · October 2010

(((huge hugs)))

I'm sorry you are having such a rough time, sweetie.

I really hope you are wrong and this cycle will give you your baby!!

jessican08 · October 2010

Hey there...I'm sorry you're having a rough day. The 2ww is the worst! ((HUGS)). I hope you get some good news in the next few days. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

njohnson1972 · October 2010

Hang in there. It is still very early. If you are or aren't having symptoms - doesn't really mean anything this early. With all of the hormones we pump in our bodies, you can't really interpret much from symptoms.

mikeandangie · October 2010

I am sorry:( Symptoms are difficult to interpret at this stage though, so try and stay positive. Can you do something fun today to distract you maybe? You need all the pampering you can get at this point.

(((hugs)))

may2806 · October 2010

I'm so sorry you're having a rough day. The 2ww messes with your mind so much. It's so hard to analyze symptoms - you really just never know until you POAS or have your beta. Hang in there. ((HUGS))

meg_koole · October 2010

BIG HUGs sweetie. The waiting and the doubt is the worst. But we all need to be hopeful that one of these times it IS going to work and there is no reason why it isn't this time. I have my fingers AND toes crossed for you!

Edwina.McDunnough · October 2010

I'm so sorry you're struggling today. Between the stress and the meds, you really can't rely on your symptoms, or lack thereof. Hang in there!

labbylover03 · October 2010

I'm so sorry you are feeling so discouraged today. I think one of the hardest parts of IF is letting go of the fact that we have no control of what's happening. Try to stay positive (of course easier said than done!). I really hope that this works out for you. Big hugs for you today....at least it's almost the weekend!

inlove731 · October 2010

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you that this is your BFP!!

DeputiesWife · October 2010

hugs and hugs and hugs.

think positive. be positive. **i know its super hard**

sending you TONS of baby dust!

sed722 · October 2010

BTW...Love the Pic it really does sum things up, doesn't it! I feel you, I wish I was a bottomless pit of possitive thinking, but I'm not either. But lets see if I can muster something up for you....We just keep going and trying...and trying...and being disappointed...to the point where we are manic and crazy people that we forget being a mom is a journey...not a destination...and this is all part of it.

How was that?

patchen30 · October 2010

I'm sorry sweetie ((hugs)) - I posted something very similar to this today too. I cried on my way home yesterday and have been basically freaking out and thinking about whether we should start considering other options. I'm just so, so tired of being unhappy.

I really hope it works out for both of us this time - we so deserve it....

theworms · October 2010

please don't worry about symptoms, every cycle i have done have all had different symptoms.

you are KU!! we're all pulling for you cutie.

SweetDahlia · October 2010

Try to stay positive. I didn't think our IVF worked, I had 0 symptoms and couldn't believe it when we found out it did.

I will be praying for a positive beta. Good Luck.

wiscgirl95 · October 2010

((hugs))

I felt the same way with my FET. I had such high hopes with IVF#1 and when it failed I was devastated. I remember right around 4dp5dt with my FET feeling the same way and crying a few times as DH did my PIO not because it hurt so much physically but because I was so exhausted and scared.

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. I really hope the next post I read from you is your BFP post!

abbe19 · October 2010

Hang in there. Every 2WW is so different. Try to take one day at a time and don't get ahead of yourself. (((Hugs)))

jani7 · October 2010

Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you! Hang in there. Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

maereth · October 2010

I'm so sorry. It was a sadistic person indeed that decided that PMS and early pregnancy should have the same symptoms so you're constantly crazy during the 2 ww. Crossing my fingers for you!

Off-topic, but I am very in love with that image in your siggy with the pregnancy test.

Amie8301 · October 2010

I'm sorry you're feeling that way

Try not to read into the symptoms tho- you're body is so whacked out right now that you can't tell anything based on them! Just keep focusing on your mom's premonition!!

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