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akayf
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who plans on being on team green?
akayf
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We didn't find out the gender when I was PG with DS. We are debating if we are going to find out this time around.
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Re: who plans on being on team green?
we found out with the first.
with the second, we caved around 30 weeks. I'm SO GLAD I did because it gave me time to adjust to the idea of having two boys.
with this one, we'll find out again. I find I don't like surprises.
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Found out with DD#1 and DS. Was Team Green with DD#2 and will be again this time too.
Totally agree. I don't want to find out, DH does, but I am holding my ground on this one. I want everything gender neutral so we can use it for more babies!! I am sure we will get plenty of gifts from the grandparents once the baby arrives.
We did not find out with #1 and won't again with this one either. It was so much fun to not know and let the suspense build up. It also built up for our friends and family, and people were so eager to learn what we had when we delivered.
Also, I didn't want a bunch of green and yellow stuff, and it wasn't that bad. As soon as we had a boy, we got tons of blue stuff. And, the best part is that all that gender neutral stuff we bought (crib decor, stroller, car seat, high chair, etc) can be used with baby #2!
My DH and I are both set on not finding out. Its something we agreed on before we even started ttc
Even if we did find out, I wouldn't tell many people because I want clothes to be gender neutral. I hate the standard blue is for boy and pink is for girl.
We were team green for the first and will be for this one too!
This exact same response for me! I am way too much of a planner to not know. If it's a girl she will be in all pink and if it's a boy he'll be in all blue. We also plan to color coordinate the nursery so I just have to know.
However, I so wish that I could not find out and just be surprised. I'm jealous of people who don't find out!
And of course all we care about is that our baby is healthy so we have no preference to which gender we have.
Ditto this. To me it's a surprise whether I find out at 20 weeks or 40 weeks. ::shrugs::
I'm torn.
With DD we were team green. I don't remember finding out what sex she was because I was so tired from pushing. So I would like to remember the moment.
DH is adament that he doesn't want to find out. There is no reason for us to find out, because all of our gear is gender neutral. We also have a lot of 0-3 month gender neutral clothing.
We just decided that we are not going to find out the sex. This is our first, and all I have heard from the few people who know that we are pregnant is that I am crazy.
I just think it will be a great suprise. Plus, everyting I like for the nursery is pretty gender nuetral. I guess the only problem will be clothes.
We'll always remember our angel baby: BFP 9/24/10, M/C 10/23/10 8w4d
Not finding out this time. Yea it is a "surprise" if you find out at 20 weeks or 40, but my 20 week ultrasound was such a letdown.
"Hmm baby won't get in position. I can't really tell. I think that might be a penis? No, that is the cord. Hmm. No, sorry can't give you an answer." (5 minutes later). "Hmm I think that is a penis. Oh its a boy!"
all of that compared with "ITS A BOY!" at delivery and SEEING that boy at the same time...no contest.
I'm 50/50 on the issue, but DH REALLY wants a surprise so I am going to go with it. We have enough neutral stuff to get us through the first several weeks if it's a girl.
We did find out with DS, at 20 weeks.
DD2: February 2014