TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I just called a miscarriage support group

and left a message.It took me an hour before I could dial the number..I know one of the girls on here recommended the one in my area a while back but I think it is on the nights I work...I may have to change my work schedule because I think this is important and what I need..Does anyone else go to a support group for loss?
Hold On ....Michael Buble
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Re: I just called a miscarriage support group

  • i currently don't go to a support group but it's something i always think about doing when i have these episodes of severe sadness. 

    i think it's a good idea. 

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  • Sadly, there are no support groups like that in my area.  You lovely ladies are my support group.  But I think it's a good idea Jen.  The more support you can get the better! 
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  • imageKelinandKevin:
    Sadly, there are no support groups like that in my area.  You lovely ladies are my support group.  But I think it's a good idea Jen.  The more support you can get the better! 
    Did you call your local hospital? I love the support here but I think in light of everything else going on I need to have an "escape" to go and vent ...How are you doing lady????
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  • I called the one at St. Barnabas months ago, but have yet to go.

    ((HUGS))

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  • imagechiener:

    I called the one at St. Barnabas months ago, but have yet to go.

    ((HUGS))

    She just called me back ...I think I am gonna see if I can switch my schedule on that one Wednesday a month to go to it
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
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    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • Yes. I started attending a month after the loss of my twins. It's been the best place for me, and the organizer is someone I can call anytime. Have you tried the SHARE or MISS groups?
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  • imagejen629:
    imagechiener:

    I called the one at St. Barnabas months ago, but have yet to go.

    ((HUGS))

    She just called me back ...I think I am gonna see if I can switch my schedule on that one Wednesday a month to go to it

    Is the next one Wednesday Nov 3rd? If so, I'll go with you.

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    * PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) * 
    * CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
    * Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d * 
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  • imagechiener:
    imagejen629:
    imagechiener:

    I called the one at St. Barnabas months ago, but have yet to go.

    ((HUGS))

    She just called me back ...I think I am gonna see if I can switch my schedule on that one Wednesday a month to go to it

    Is the next one Wednesday Nov 3rd? If so, I'll go with you.

    Yep If I can get off work I am gonna go so that would be great!
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • Good luck Jen, I hope it is good for you.  I think you're brave for calling.  ((hugs))
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  • While I haven't been to one, I give you a ton of credit for making this call, and I hope you find support and guidance that you are looking for.

    (for those that didn't know they had them in their area - I've been going to my RE for 2 years and didn't know that there was a group run out of his office until 2 months ago. They don't advertise, so I found out overhearing another patient talk about it. So ask your docs - they may know!)

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • That is great, Jen.  I hope you find it very supportive and helpful.
  • That's wonderful Jen.

    I went to SHARE for 3 months. It helped me, but every meeting was the same, with the same people always telling the same story. By the time we go to the "support" part it felt like the meeting was over because of the stories.

    But I think it's great and I hope it helps you alot.

  • I haven't gone to one, but have thought of it a few times. I just have been afraid to make the call. Let us know how it goes.

    Jenn

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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • I would really like to join a support group - because I love all you ladies so much...But I haven't heard of anything in my area...
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