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applause for DH! i can't believe it.

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if any of you read my post below i was saying how i can't talk to DH b/c he's not very understanding etc... but i must have really had him feeling bad for me today b/c he brought me home flowers and a card.  Big Smile  of course then i started crying again. but i can't believe he brought me flowers and a card. i can't remember the last time he's done something like this for me.  it's very, very rare. 
Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • BabyMimiBabyMimi

    That is so great :)

    He knew you needed it today. You have a great DH. 

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  • Clerk9Clerk9 member

    Bravo, DH!!!

    Their minds work SOOO differently than ours that a lot of things just don't occur to them.  I'm glad you were able to get through to him & that he's being supportive.  :)  Good man.   

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  • jen629jen629 member
    awww sweet:)
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  • babes12babes12 member
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    Bravo, DH!!!

    Their minds work SOOO differently than ours that a lot of things just don't occur to them.  I'm glad you were able to get through to him & that he's being supportive.  :)  Good man.   

    i was truly shocked b/c honestly this rarely ever happens.  i felt loved.  Smile  it made me feel so much better.

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    So sweet!  
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  • lunatwolunatwo member
    That's awesome!  My DH is like that too so I totally understand that when it happens it is a big deal.
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    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
    3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
    6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
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    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    Good job DH!
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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    That is a solid move on his part.  I hope he keeps stepping up, because you shouldn't be doing this alone.
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    Oh how sweet...He must have known you needed that today!
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    that's so sweet! I can count on one finger the amount of times DH has brought me home flowers, lol.
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  • mlmtggmlmtgg

    you deserve it! 

     

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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member

    How sweet!

    I'm glad he's showing you his support, and that it makes  you feel better!

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  • babes12babes12 member
    thanks everyone.  it's funny how a little gesture can change everything.  now i need to shake this saddness i'm still feeling.  ugh. 
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • damabo80damabo80 member
    aww, good DH!


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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    What a sweet dh!

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  • Court1Court1
    Awww, that's very sweet of him :)
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    That's so sweet!

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  • redstars93redstars93 member

    YAY for your DH! :)

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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    How sweet!!!
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  • csquared426csquared426 member
    Aww, that's so sweet.

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