June 2011 Moms

XP: Any other VBAC'ers?

I had an awful experience with my labor and eventual c-section delivery with my first son.  I am going to have a VBAC with this baby.  Anyone with me? 

I am working to find my provider (not going with the same OB as last time).  Today I called the 2 large clinics in my area (basically the only 2 clinics in the area-several locations each) and asked for statistics on each OB's c-section rates and successful VBAC rates.  The first clinic told me (after being transferred to 3 different people and being on hold for over 20 minutes) that I'd have to leave a message for their coordinator who was out of town this week. 

The second clinic told me "we don't keep those statistics".  The lady I was talking to was very nice and understanding when I told her I didn't believe her and asked to talk to her business manager.  She said she would do some more checking and call me back. 

I knew I would have to fight for my VBAC.  I didn't know i would have to fight just to choose my provider!

Re: XP: Any other VBAC'ers?

  • This is my first, so I don't have any advice for you there, but do you feel comfortable sharing where you gave birth to your son? I am also from the TC, and I'd just like to know if there's a certain hospital/practice you'd recommend avoiding!
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  • Have you tried posting on your local bump board?  Maybe someone else has gone through some thing similar in your area and can offer a recommendation?
  • Birdie-I actually don't live in the TC anymore and didn't give birth there.  Don't have anyone to tell you to avoid there.  The best advice I can give you as a first time mom is be informed, know what you are hoping for in your birth (more than healthy baby, healthy mom--that really isn't enough sometimes) and read everything you can get your hands on.  Watch "The Business of Being Born" , etc.  I am educated now, but just thought I'd get my epi and push my baby out and go home...not the way it happened. 

    Kel-I live in too small of an area to have a local board...that was a good suggestion though!

  • I had an entirely different emergency c-section experience as I had developed Pre-E and HELLP Syndrome with my son....and it was a case of delivery him safely ASAP. 

    My new OB (we moved last January) is insisting that as long as there are no complications during pregnancy that I VBAC....no fight required. 

    And even my old OB had recomended VBAC with our next child as well.  So that wouldn't have been a fight either.  I thought that most OB's were now pushing for VBAC's instead of Once a c-section always a c-section.

    Although as I understand it...your option for VBAC depends greatly on how they preformed your c-section to begin with....So as long as they cut horizontally (between the hip bones) I don't see why you would have to put up such a fight regardless of which OB your seeing.

    I would just pick a doctor and say here are my c-section records and as long as you think its safe I would like to go VBAC this time.

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    I had an entirely different emergency c-section experience as I had developed Pre-E and HELLP Syndrome with my son....and it was a case of delivery him safely ASAP. 

    My new OB (we moved last January) is insisting that as long as there are no complications during pregnancy that I VBAC....no fight required. 

    And even my old OB had recomended VBAC with our next child as well.  So that wouldn't have been a fight either.  I thought that most OB's were now pushing for VBAC's instead of Once a c-section always a c-section.

    Although as I understand it...your option for VBAC depends greatly on how they preformed your c-section to begin with....So as long as they cut horizontally (between the hip bones) I don't see why you would have to put up such a fight regardless of which OB your seeing.

    I would just pick a doctor and say here are my c-section records and as long as you think its safe I would like to go VBAC this time.

    I hope it is that easy.  However, I think that it is really easy to say "Yes, you can do a VBAC" but when the time actually comes stories change.  I have read too many horror stories just to pick one and hope for the best.  I am looking for numbers to back up their language. 

    An OB might say she'll let me VBAC, but if her successful VBAC rate is only 20% then she probably really doesn't mean it. 

  • imageLuv4Minnesota:

    Birdie-I actually don't live in the TC anymore and didn't give birth there.  Don't have anyone to tell you to avoid there.  The best advice I can give you as a first time mom is be informed, know what you are hoping for in your birth (more than healthy baby, healthy mom--that really isn't enough sometimes) and read everything you can get your hands on.  Watch "The Business of Being Born" , etc.  I am educated now, but just thought I'd get my epi and push my baby out and go home...not the way it happened. 

    Done and done. Thanks for the advice! I'm working with a midwife and really interested in a natural birth, so hopefully we'll be able to follow my birth plan as close as possible (or at least respond to any emergency in a way I'm comfortable with).

  • Seeing that you are in MN, I just had my first appt yesterday and my doctor gave me the choice. What clinic family are you with? I am with Fairview/Allina and my doctor was ok with doing a VBAC if I wanted to go that route. Due to other issues that may come up with preeclampsia I will probably not be able to have the choice, but it is out there you just have to find the right clinic/doctor. That may be the hard part. Good luck!
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