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allybaby85allybaby85 member
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DH and I went to a wedding and the ceremony was beautiful, the reception was pretty dead so we left early.  Then we went to go see our friends newborn. I held it totally together and wasn't even really sad.  I was really happy that she got a healthy take home baby, and I got to hog her for about 2 hours.  I was really scared before I went into the house because I didn't want to break down crying hysterically, but I was ok.  I feel so good that I was actually able to go visit and not be sad about it!  I think she was amazed because once we lost the baby I only saw her twice while she was pregnant, and both were by accident.  She even thought about how I might react when I came in the house so she had a family member take the baby outside so she could tell if I was ok to see her.  I thought that was really thoughtful.  YAY for good days!!! Party!!!

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  • ksulliksulli member
    That's a really sweet & understanding friend. Probably helped to have a title control over the situation too. Glad it turned out to be a good day!
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  • e_ueckere_uecker member
    She sounds like a really good friend. I'm glad it all went well!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Glad you had a good day and sounds like you have a great friend.

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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    That was so wonderful of your friend.  I'm glad today ended up being a good day.
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