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Both of my pregnant friends gave birth today...

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There are three new babies in my world today. A friend and former coworker had her little boy at 36w4d and a good friend from high school had her twins at 28 weeks. 

My coworker and her son are doing well. T&Ps are needed for my other friends' tiny twins. She had a very hard pregnancy (she was pregnant with triplets, but they had to selectively reduce her pregnancy at 12 weeks due to the danger to her health and the babies - the reduction happened the same week as my miscarriage, so we were each other's support at the time...) and has been on hospital bed rest for the last 29 days. They kept the babies in as long as they could.

And my neighbour two doors down had her baby last week, so there are now officially no pregnant women in my circle of friends/acquaintances. Somehow that makes me feel better. (Watch, there will be a pregnancy announcement on Facebook tomorrow...) 

 

 

Suze
TTC#1 since May 2009
PCOS * Hypothyroid

Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
March 2015: IUI#1 - nope.
May 2015: IUI#2 - nada.
October 2015: IUI#3 - BFP on Nov 2, 2015! *stick baby stick!*

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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    T&P go out to your friend. And to you. Lets hope there is a little rest of pregnancy announcements for you.


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
     BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    wowza, I hope those tiny twins do well, many T&P for them!
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    bfp 11/19/10 Born 07/24/11 via C/S

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  • stillbakingstillbaking member

    Thanks ladies. I'm worried but hopeful for the tiny babies. My friend and her partner have been through so much to have them.  

    Suze
    TTC#1 since May 2009
    PCOS * Hypothyroid

    Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

    Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
    March 2015: IUI#1 - nope.
    May 2015: IUI#2 - nada.
    October 2015: IUI#3 - BFP on Nov 2, 2015! *stick baby stick!*

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  • krissymackrissymac member
    At the time of my m/c, I didn't know anyone close to me that was pregnant, my SIL had just given birth 4 days before I got my BFP. Then a friend who didn't know about my m/c yet, dropped in unexpectedly one night a week and a half after it happened to announce her pregnancy. I haven't been able to see her or talk to her since. She was exactly as far along as I would have been and it kills me to think about that. When I walk around malls and see a ton of pregnant women, it's another twinge of pain. That's all I want in the world right now :(
    BFP 7/31/10 m/c 8/16/10
    BFP 10/25/10 Brynn Helen born 7/7/11
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  • stillbakingstillbaking member

    imagekrissymac:
    At the time of my m/c, I didn't know anyone close to me that was pregnant, my SIL had just given birth 4 days before I got my BFP. Then a friend who didn't know about my m/c yet, dropped in unexpectedly one night a week and a half after it happened to announce her pregnancy. I haven't been able to see her or talk to her since. She was exactly as far along as I would have been and it kills me to think about that. When I walk around malls and see a ton of pregnant women, it's another twinge of pain. That's all I want in the world right now :(

    I know how you feel. It's hard to see our friends have what we so desperately want for ourselves. Hugs.  

    Suze
    TTC#1 since May 2009
    PCOS * Hypothyroid

    Bean - BFP May 26, 2010. EDD Feb 3, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 8w5d - June 29, 2010.
    Pumpkin - BFP Feb 8, 2011. EDD Oct 21, 2011. Natural Miscarriage 6w3d - Feb 28, 2011.

    Femera started November 2014. 3 rounds, no luck. Moving to IUI.
    March 2015: IUI#1 - nope.
    May 2015: IUI#2 - nada.
    October 2015: IUI#3 - BFP on Nov 2, 2015! *stick baby stick!*

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  • ksulliksulli member
    T&P to those tiny twins. A friend of mine had hers at 30 weeks, they're now 4 mos old, and 10 lbs, so they can definitely do it! Also, I really hope that YOU are the next pregnancy announcement in your world of friends.
    *Married 10.10.08*
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    TTC #1 9.09 - BFP#1:2.18.10= missed m/c, D&C 4.16
    BFP#2:10.22.10=Avelin born 7.2.11
    TTC#2: 2.13 - BFP#3: 7.25.13=Kelsey born 3.31.14
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