Two Under 2 Tuesday Check-In

Re: Two Under 2 Tuesday Check-In

• eas15905

  October 2010

  I'm not sure, I don't think so.  I do notice (and appreciate) things about her though, like how gentle she is, how she likes other babies and doesn't mind when I hold them, etc.  

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• MrsPatterson member

  October 2010

  Well, it hasn't changed our relationship at all, but I do find that I'm noticing and thinking about certain things more.  Like, will DD be less active than DS?  Will she be as happy and smiley?  Just noticing more about DS' personality and wondering how DD will be the same or different.  And also, I'm trying really hard to appreciate just having to take care of one kid, because I know 2 is going to be so much more difficult.  I'm trying to strike the delicate balance of appreciating what I have now without going completely off the deep end of fear and worry about what I have coming!
  

  

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• PurpleK26 member

  October 2010

  I don't think it's changed it too much, but I maybe cherish things a bit more, like rocking her. She doesn't like to be rocked much anymore, so that would probably be the same whether I was pg again or not, but, I do love it right now when she lets me, because soon I will be too big to do it!
  

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• Mskharis member

  October 2010

  I think I've found myself kissing her waaaaay too much. More than I ever have. I don't know if its because in my subconconcious I think when the new one comes I will have to split the time. Not sure. But I know my love will not change for any of my kids.

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• roundtheworldgirl member

  October 2010

  I definitely started seeing DD a bit differently a couple months ago.  I find myself very conscious of the fact that she's not going to be my baby anymore - she's going to be a big sister.  As a big sister to four siblings myself (three of whom are significantly younger than me), I find myself thinking about how she'll be "Mama's helper."  Logically I know that with two so close in age, she'll have a very different sort of relationship with #2 than I have with my siblings.  But I still look at her all the time and think "Big girl!"
  

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• melmel10

  October 2010

  I have been too sick to think.  BTW my due date is March 21
  

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