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Cant shake this down in the dumps feeling

psumel13psumel13
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So one of my co workers/close friend announced her pregnancy today. I already knew but it still hurts watching everyone congradulate her when I should be in the same boat! Its not that I dont feel happy for her but I feel really sad that I cant share in this experience! Any adivce to get through the rest of teh day would  be greatly appreciated!
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Re: Cant shake this down in the dumps feeling

  • lauralizabeelauralizabee member

    I'm sorry ::hugs::

    My method/advice: avoid, avoid, avoid...that's all I got.

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  • inlovewithBinlovewithB
    I don't have very good advice, because I haven't really figured this one out yet. I just survived my first meeting with the pregnant co-worker who "stole" my EDD while I was out of work for the D&C. The way I survived without tears was looking at everything but her. I looked at the pattern of the Granite Table top and thought about what type of Granite I would like in my kitchen. I looked out the window at the Boats on the river. I just tried to keep my mind occupied on everything other than her and her pregnancy. GL!
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  • EmeraldEyedLadyEmeraldEyedLady
    I don't have any advice, but I wanted to say that I'm sorry.  

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  • JILLY427JILLY427
    I have good days and bad.  My mc was 4 weeks ago, but it still feels like yesterday for some reason.  I haven't been as into FB lately because everywhere I turn someone is posting a sonogram picture or something about their newborn sleeping through the night. This probably makes me sounds terrible. I truly don't feel bitter or resentful toward anyone that has a healthy baby, but I do feel sad when I see it.  
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  • bryanandkatrinabryanandkatrina member
    Sorry I can't provide any advice - you'll notice by my recent posts that I am sort of dealing with a similar situation, and haven't quite figured out how to deal yet - but I wanted to say that I am sorry you're feel down in the dumps, it's been that way for me lately too. I hope we find the light at the end of the tunnel very soon ((((hugs))))
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  • BlakeGBlakeG member
    I'm so sorry hun.  My method is just avoid at all costs.  This is what I do with anything pregnancy related right now.  Wish I had some better advice for you.  Hang in there.
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  • Julie*JulesJulie*Jules
    imagelauralizabee:

    I'm sorry ::hugs::

    My method/advice: avoid, avoid, avoid...that's all I got.

    GL ((hugs))

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