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Sad (again)

Court1Court1
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I went to see my friend who delivered her baby girl at 20 weeks last night.  She had pictures & precious little mold that the hospital did of the sweet baby.  My heart broke into a million pieces again watching them & listening to the story of what happened & the what-if's. 

I can honestly say that I have no desire to be pg again this month.  Sitting there with her made me feel like the universe is f'ing broken. 

Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • ERICA21779ERICA21779
    (((hugs))) Heartbreaking.
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  • jen629jen629 member
    I am so sorry sweetie{{HUGS}}
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  • BabyMimiBabyMimi
    I'm sorry. That sucks so bad. I get angry at the universe all the time. It is so cruel that people get pregnant, get their hopes up, love their baby instantly and then that baby is cruelly taken away from them and it is completely out of their control. Hugs to your friend. She should join us on here for support when she is ready.
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    I'm so sorry. Hugs.
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  • RunSchwartzRunRunSchwartzRun
    I'm sorry, that is just beyond unfair.  (((hugs)))
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  • csquared426csquared426 member
    OMG, your poor friend. That is absolutely heartwrenching.

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  • hbkiseshbkises member
    I'm so sorry..
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    Hugs.  That's just heartbreaking.
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  • gwennythepoohgwennythepooh member
    ((hugs)) I'm glad she has you, though. I think that you'll be able to be an invaluable support to her in the near future since you understand.
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    That's so sad. Sad
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  • Clerk9Clerk9 member
    You're such a good friend for supporting her even though it's really painful because of what you've been through.  I'm sure your friend is extremely grateful to know that you're there for her.  And that's why I'm glad we have you here on the board, too.  :)  You're both in my thoughts ((HUGS)).
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I'm so sorry
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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    ((hugs))
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  • babes12babes12 member

    having been in her shoes my heart is just breaking for her.  i'm so sorry anyone has to go through such a tragedy.  it's just awful. 

    the hospital gave us a mold of Wyatt's hand and foot too.  i'm really glad they did, they sit next to his little blue urn. 

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  • michroccmichrocc member
    I'm so so sorry. My thoughts are with both of you. ::::hugs::::
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I'm sorry, sending big hugs to both of you. Your friend is lucky to have you by her side and supporting her.

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  • rjl07rjl07
    Hugs to both of you.
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