TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Well fvck a duck (Balls around the World mentioned)

You will remember my brilliant food themes poll of a week or two ago?

Well my wonderful, not-even-trying-but-can't-help-but-be-brilliantly-funny theme of "Balls around the World" shall never see the light of day.

Why you ask? Let me explain:

  1. The dinner is scheduled for October 15th at 7:00 pm.
  2. One of the couples wants to 'announce' their pregnancy at dinner.

Not even cakeballs could save me from throwing myself off the roof... so yeah, I backed out of hosting and will instead be sitting at home in ugly pjs, doing the ugly cry, and eating cookie dough.

Blech.

Re: Well fvck a duck (Balls around the World mentioned)

  • Because I'm a classy b!tch, I would kindly mention to your friend

    "oh, are you sure you want to announce on that day? It's infant and pregnancy loss awareness day"

     

    I bet she won't announce after you spill that one! ;)

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  • well that sucks balls. 
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  • imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Because I'm a classy b!tch, I would kindly mention to your friend

    "oh, are you sure you want to announce on that day? It's infant and pregnancy loss awareness day"

     

    I bet she won't announce after you spill that one! ;)

    Oh yes, please do mention this.  I also hope that you will not be attending now that you are not hosting. 

    ETA: I think I need glasses.  You are not going to the dinner. 

  • :::HUGS:::
  • WTF universe, seriously?  Carrie is wise.  I might mention it.  Perhaps we can arrange for a virtual balls around the world party?  Just don't ask me to make cake balls, I suck at those. 
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  • You can still eat balls, though. Just roll the cookie dough into little balls. 
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  • imagejennsadye1979:
    You can still eat balls, though. Just roll the cookie dough into little balls. 

    I think we have a plan...

    @Carrie - the stupid thing is EVERYONE knows... I think she just means 'officially celebrate' it or something stupid. I can see her bringing pink and blue something-or-other dessert.

    I'm contemplating going public with my losses this year. They're all friends with me on fb so at least they won't be bitching about me bailing on hosting.

  • I think you need a new theme:

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    I'm so sorry.  Even I was excited about the balls theme!  Stupid FH stupidness.  :(

     

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  • I'm sorry she ruined your awesome party. Dumb FHs.
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  • That sucks hairy goat balls.

    I think you need to make 6 kinds of cakeballs just for you and :ahem: spend the evening shoving balls in your mouth.

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  • imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Because I'm a classy b!tch, I would kindly mention to your friend

    "oh, are you sure you want to announce on that day? It's infant and pregnancy loss awareness day"

     

    I bet she won't announce after you spill that one! ;)

    Yes. Do it. Fvck her and do it.

    She has nine fvcking months to celebrate being pregnant. We get one stupid day. At least people should know about it.

    Oh and ps: I will celebrate the virtual balls around the world with you. Swedish meatballs, cakeballs, rice balls. It'll be balls to the wall here. We'll listen to Li'l Jon as our musical accompaniment. 

    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • That completely sucks goat balls. I hope the cookie dough is really good.
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  • wait - she's announcing her plan to announce her pregnancy? What a stupid fh. I hate her. You should so tell her what that day is. How obnoxious.

    However, I love that sevens has upgraded Li'l Jon to "musical accompaniment."
  • imagebabes12:
    well that sucks balls. 

    This. Crying

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  • I'm so sorry.

    I have issues with her for announcing she is announcing her pregnancy and doing so at a party you are hosting.

    I agree with Carrie, you should call her up and tell her about it. I would go one step farther and tell her you had already planned on doing a special pregnancy loss memorial at the dinner so that wouldn't go a good time. 

    If you do decide to stay home, I fully support the virtual balls around the world.

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  • I love Carrie's suggestion. I'm sorry your plans were ruined.

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  • I definitely don't get the announcing the plan to announce a pregnancy thing.  I'm sorry this FH ruined your Balls party.  I'll join in the virtual balls too!
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  • Dude, that pisses me off.  So, she has already announced her pregnancy, but she made an additional announcement to announce she is going to announce her pregnancy again? 
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  • imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Because I'm a classy b!tch, I would kindly mention to your friend

    "oh, are you sure you want to announce on that day? It's infant and pregnancy loss awareness day"

     

    I bet she won't announce after you spill that one! ;)

    I agree with Carrie....That ought to shut her up for the time being...

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  • I like Carrie's idea of telling her what the day is. I can't believe she wants to announce at your dinner.

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  • imageCarrieLeigh84:

    Because I'm a classy b!tch, I would kindly mention to your friend

    "oh, are you sure you want to announce on that day? It's infant and pregnancy loss awareness day"

     

    I bet she won't announce after you spill that one! ;)

    this. for sure. 

     

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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