3rd Trimester

Most out of line/bizarre stranger comment post

I've become accustom to the, "you're huge!"  "you're having twins!" comments from strangers but this one took the cake.

DH and I are at the check out in Target and the cashier asks when i'm due blah blah and then this gem came out:

Target Lady - *looks at DH* Are you the father?

DH - "Yes"

Target Lady - "Are you suuurrreee?"

*WTF look on my face*

DH - "Yes we have a very loving and trusting marriage, I know it's my child."

Target Lady - "Well you never know..."

WTF!!!!!  I stood there in shock, DH thought it was funny...

Now I want to know from my fellow bumpies what is the most ridiculous insane out of line comment you've received!

Re: Most out of line/bizarre stranger comment post

  • ::Jaw drops::

    I'm almost at a loss for words. How rude! 


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  • Wow! 

    I've gotten asked multiple times how much weight I've gained. Not sure why someone who didn't know what I looked like before would care!

    I've also been asked, while carrying my daughter and wearing my wedding ring, if I was still with my baby's dad. Ummm, yes lol.

     

  • The winner is still my step-mother.

    When we told her and my dad about the baby she asked, "Is this because we are moving back?"

    To this day I wish I had said, "Yes, because we make our family planning decisions around YOU."

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  • imageMrs.Bones:

    I would have been PISSED at the time, but looked back and laughed.

    I haven't had anything too bizzare but I do have adorable 6 year old neighbors that always say "HOW IS THE BABY!? CAN WE MEET HIM YET?" and I have to remind them that I'll have the baby in December. They don't really believe it.

    Aww lol!  I love little kids and their reactions to pregnancy.  My nephew (who is 5) thinks the baby is coming out of my belly button LOL

  • imageMrs.Johns:

    The winner is still my step-mother.

    When we told her and my dad about the baby she asked, "Is this because we are moving back?"

    To this day I wish I had said, "Yes, because we make our family planning decisions around YOU."

    LOL! 

  • I've gotten the "are you still with the babys father?" um yes, yes I am. "Oh well, do your kids have the same dad?" excuse me!? thats none of your business since I DON'T KNOW YOU!
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    I've gotten the "are you still with the babys father?" um yes, yes I am. "Oh well, do your kids have the same dad?" excuse me!? thats none of your business since I DON'T KNOW YOU!

    Ugh!!! 

  • Wow. Just wow.

    I mean, we joke about it from time to time (as in, "If this baby isn't blue-eyed and blonde-haired, you'll have some serious explaining to to!")  but that's with people we know....and WE are usually the ones who make that joke. I would never, ever DARE say something like that to someone else.

    Wow again.

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  • I had a lady at the store ask me if I wanted the baby and if it was planned. 

    My neighbor has a little boy and he is so cute . He asked me why my belly was so big and round hah His mom was embarrassed and I thought it was so funny . 

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  • Okay, that is CRAZY!!!  I can see how you're miffed.  She basically accused you of being a lying, cheating whore.  I can't even imagine what this woman's train of thought was...  I've only been obviously pregnant for a few weeks so haven't had stranger comments yet, will post if there are any good ones.

    On a side note.  When people ask DH if he's excited his response is "I'm waiting for the paternity test."  He's a complete smarta$$ and likes to get a reaction from people.  Saw a onesie that says "He thinks he's my daddy."  I wouldn't dress my child in something like that, but it would be a pretty good gag gift.

  • What a bizarre comment! 

    I had some lady tell me that she thought my 2 1/2 year old would fit nicely in my belly.  I laughed at the time and said yeah she is pretty tiny.  But after thinking about it I was like wow...she is saying I am huge. LOL.

    I also had someone in church ask me if I was sure it wasn't triplets.  I am use to the twin comment, but really... triplets...

    Some people just need to think before they speak. 

     

     

  • What a bizarre comment! 

    I had some lady tell me that she thought my 2 1/2 year old would fit nicely in my large belly.  I laughed at the time and said yeah she is pretty tiny.  But after thinking about it I was like wow...she is saying I am huge. LOL.

    I also had someone in church ask me if I was sure it wasn't triplets.  I am use to the twin comment, but really... triplets...

    Some people just need to think before they speak. 

     

     

  • I wasn't very good at wearing my rings all the time, and I got asked at WalMart if I was "still with the daddy".

    I blankly stared at the woman and said "I don't know who the daddy is." Then walked away really fast. And almost peed my pants laughing later. Needless to say I wear my rings ALL THE TIME now.

  • Mine has to be from my MIL.

    When we found out I was pregnant, we waited a couple weeks to tell her. So around 8 weeks, we informed everyone. At 20 weeks, MIL was at the house and while we were sitting in the kitchen, just the two of us, she literally asked me if I was positive the baby was H's! That still to this day bothers the hell out of me.

     Most of the other comments I've gotten have been about how small I am. Especially when they ask how far along I am. I've gained  46 lbs. but keep getting told I don't eat enough or that I'm too small Huh?

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  • A guy that I work with said to me, "Now it looks like you've got something going on down there." Surprise

    I have since developed the philosophy that if someone makes a comment about my body I have the right to make a comment about theirs.

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  • I have gotten some good ones, but I think the best was the other day at Lowe's.  This man walked up to me and said, "Well I guess you wouldn't qualify for that show" to which I had a blank look and he says, "you know the I didn't know I was pregnant one".  Um, ok, really didn't know what to say to that one.
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  • A guy that I work with said to me, "Now it looks like you've got something going on down there." Surprise

    I have since developed the philosophy that if someone makes a comment about my body I have the right to make a comment about theirs.

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