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I don't post much but...

I very rarely post because when I first signed up for this site I became a little obsessed. However, today I had to post because I am feeling really sad and alone. 

I got AF today. This was our sixth cycle TTC. I know it can take a healthy couple a year to get pregnant but in my naivet? I never thought it would take us more than a few months. It is also hard because we have decided not to tell anyone that we are TTC so I can't talk to anyone besides DH about how I feel.

I will let myself mope today and tomorrow I will move on to cycle 7 with a positive attitude. 

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  • This site is great for support.  We all know the disappointment of BFN's month after month.  Hang in there...maybe start posting a little more, make some friends and things will start to look up for you.

     

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  • this was totally me last cycle.. I'm on 7 now myself
    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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  • I'm on cycle 6 and feeling the same way.  Hang in there - this is a great place for support!
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  • Some days we just gotta mope!!!  I think we've all felt that way somewhere in this process.  Best of luck to you on this next cycle!!!
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  • you are right, maybe i should post more. i need to find a happy medium between being obsessed and using this site to keep me from going crazy.
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  • i am sorry for the let down I think you deserve a day to be downa and i'm glad you are heading into the next cycle with a possitive attitude!! We are on cycle one, so I am not there yet. If you need a friend you can have me! PM me or anything if you ever need to!!!! GL and enjoy your down day cuz tomorrow the sun comes out!!! Yes
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  • I'm on my sixth cycle now. It's nice to have women here who know exactly how you feel. Keep your chin up girly, hope cycle 7 is it for you! Smile

  • Hang in there and lots of hugs = ) I felt that way after cycle 6. That was kind of my turning point. I don't feel as crazy now that I got past that point. GL and keep your chin up = )
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  • Really sorry about AF, she is such a hater!  I've found that the good outweighs the bad with this site. I may be on here more than I should, but when I'm having one of those days the people here are the only ones that know what I'm feeling.  No one IRL is in the same boat as I am.  GL this cycle!
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  • Sorry to about AF. It's hard not to mope, but glad you're moving into cycle 7 with positivity. I am on my second TTC cycle after a loss 6 months ago.  Sending happy and fertile thoughts your way.
  • I'm sorry about CD1 :(

    Here's hoping 7 is a lucky number for you!

  • I could have written this post.  I also took a break from this site because I didn't want to think about TTC all the time.  I'm not sure exactly what cycle we are on bc we took a few months off, but I haven't told anyone IRL really. And I just started spotting today, so AF will probably be tomorrow.

    I don't know if it helps, but I know just how you feel. 

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  • thank you all for the encouragement! it really does help. i am trying to be move active on the site since i clearly need the support.
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  • so sorry you're down hon, i've been there a million times - it stinks. Look forward to getting to know you more. Best of luck that cycle 7 will be it for you

    Even miracles take a little time - Cinderella

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