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BFN....

knelliknelli
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I didn't think I would be disappointed....but I kinda am.

I am not ready to be pg again, but that excitement and nervousness of looking for the second line really kicked in.

I know it is afternoon pee and yada yada ya.... maybe I will test again in a couple of days if there is still no sign of AF.  Otherwise I hope we can stick to our plan of waiting until the beginning of the year to TTC... we will see.

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    PurpleK26PurpleK26 member

    boo...

    Well, I hope you get to test again in a few days... and just FYI, I predict that now that you've got a taste of the bfp excitement, you ttc before you'd originally planned... but, as for this round, I'm not giving up hope till AF shows! 

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    lovesinthehouselovesinthehouse

    I totally understand how you feel. My first full cycle pp was super long. Well, a lot longer than my cycles were. By like a week and a half. When I told DH that I had tested (and it was BFN), I said, "I should be super duper relieved, and while I am, I'm kind of sad too." He said he felt the same way. So we decided not to try yet, but to just forget BC and let it be for a while. Of course, I can't help but wonder when I'm ovulating. Months and months of TTC means those habits die hard!

    Anyway, sorry, Knelli. It'll happen when the time is right.

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    knelliknelli
    imagePurpleK26:

     I predict that now that you've got a taste of the bfp excitement, you ttc before you'd originally planned...

    I have a feeling you are right!  DH would be SO excited if I said yes to trying again right now!!  He has serious baby fever!

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    LemonLime10LemonLime10
    Oh man! 
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    jen-dalejen-dale member
    Boo :-( Maybe AF will show for you now. But maybe you just need FMU. I will keep watching for updates on the status.of your ute :-p
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    CapeFall2006CapeFall2006
    Ha ha.  I totally hear you.  I tested once even though I was still BF and hadn't gotten AF back, and had taken every precaution to not get pg, and I was still dissapointed. :)  
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    MskharisMskharis member
    Well if you still get a BFN, the beginning of next year around the corner!!
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    mrstyson03mrstyson03

    Boooo for BFN.

    Elise is sooooo cute!

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    kellieokkellieok
    Aww I know what you mean though. I still have baby fever even though I know I am not ready for another one. I would feel that excitement too, waiting to see a second line. Well keep us posted!
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    nicobean1nicobean1 member

    I was like, what?! You're TTC? I'm sorry for the disappointment but if you're not ready for another baby, a BFN is a good thing.

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    mrsandrews07mrsandrews07
    So sorry girl! Try again in the morning. The first of the year will be here before you know it. We're waiting until Spring. That seems like a lifetime away!
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