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Please ladies, explain this to me....

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This is the SECOND friend in a two week span that has a baby 3-6 months and said: "I'm so scared, I think I might be pregnant again.", right after they said: "We're not ready for a second child.".....

Dear jeebus.... if you're not ready for a second child, then here's a concept...

USE SOME FORM OF CONTRACEPTION.

Oh.... and maybe stop complaining about your possible accidental oops babies, FFS... these people know my situation.... a little sensitivity please!

Grrrrr..... 

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  • heather_09_15_07heather_09_15_07 member

    I agree with you. But a lot of people seem to think that if they are breastfeeding and haven't gotten their period yet, that they can't get pregnant. Hell, my RE told my my chances were much lower as long as I'm still breastfeeding.

    But yeah, they really need to shut it and not complain to you about it.

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    Preach it girl!  aA few of my friends actually DID get pregnant 4-7 months after giving birth.  Makes me want to bang my head on a wall!!!
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  • Ya Never KnowYa Never Know member
    imageheather_09_15_07:

    I agree with you. But a lot of people seem to think that if they are breastfeeding and haven't gotten their period yet, that they can't get pregnant. Hell, my RE told my my chances were much lower as long as I'm still breastfeeding.

    But yeah, they really need to shut it and not complain to you about it.

    That could be the case for one of my friends, but for the other, she knows better, her sister got pregnant with her fourth that way. It's just annoying. 

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  • Birdies08Birdies08 member
    Buy them some condoms!
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  • heather_09_15_07heather_09_15_07 member
    imageYa Never Know:
    imageheather_09_15_07:

    I agree with you. But a lot of people seem to think that if they are breastfeeding and haven't gotten their period yet, that they can't get pregnant. Hell, my RE told my my chances were much lower as long as I'm still breastfeeding.

    But yeah, they really need to shut it and not complain to you about it.

    That could be the case for one of my friends, but for the other, she knows better, her sister got pregnant with her fourth that way. It's just annoying. 

    I'll just go with today's theme then. There's a lot of stupid out there.

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  • nicholraynicholray

    imageBirdies08:
    Buy them some condoms!

    This! Hahahahaa! So when they start complaining about it, just reach in your purse and hand them one!

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  • Kathy4678Kathy4678 member
    My sister did this and it made me want to smack her. "I don't know how this happened". Um, yeah- I can tell you exactly how this happened. So annoying.
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  • abeaverhausen2abeaverhausen2
    imageYa Never Know:

    This is the SECOND friend in a two week span that has a baby 3-6 months and said: "I'm so scared, I think I might be pregnant again.", right after they said: "We're not ready for a second child.".....

    Dear jeebus.... if you're not ready for a second child, then here's a concept...

    USE SOME FORM OF CONTRACEPTION.

    Oh.... and maybe stop complaining about your possible accidental oops babies, FFS... these people know my situation.... a little sensitivity please!

    Grrrrr..... 

    This is worst part IMO. They know you're trying and they're still complaining to you. What is wrong with people?
     

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  • AndBabyWouldMake5AndBabyWouldMake5
    A co-worker of mine did the same thing.  She openly calls it her "oops bump".  Pulling out is not a form of contraception which you are breast feeding darnit!
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  • Mrs. StewMrs. Stew member

    imageAndBabyWouldMake5:
    A co-worker of mine did the same thing.  She openly calls it her "oops bump".  Pulling out is not a form of contraception which you are breast feeding darnit!

    Ugh.  That makes me sick.

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  • jessicabarrupjessicabarrup member

    I understand completely my husband and I lost a child in August and have been trying since my best friend came to share the news at my work she is pregnant and I am mad/sad/jealous because she has a child already and she just got back with the baby daddy! Yet my husband and I have been together for almost 6 years used protection the whole time got married bought a house have good jobs and finally decided we were ready and 12 weeks later lost the baby!! And know all she talks about is the baby I can't do it, I just loose it thinking you are unemployed barley making ends meet with one and want to add another GREAT!!! 

     

    Sorry but feels better know that I have vented a little!!

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