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Firefly205 · September 2010

I would just like to thank you all for the love and support you have shown me the last few days.

I came home last night to talk. I planned to leave if I didn't get what I needed. He came clean and I immediately felt better. Not great, sick too actually, but better. I instantly knew that I could trust my intuition and I could start on the long road to trusting him again.

It was not an easy few days for me. But thank you again for all your words. I am brought to tears when I think about how encouraging you have all been. Thank you!

"Just one more problem in my life that God took from me, and handled for me. I trust in you, my Lord." ~Me

Skylarv217 · September 2010

Wish you the best of luck in reconciling ! You've been in my thoughts and prayers this week. I know it's tough and there is a long road ahead of you but things will work out for the best!

Molluskwrangler · September 2010

I am glad that he came clean, it is a good step to being able to see if you can repair what he broke.

I would suggest marriage counseling if you plan on staying together.

I wish you the best of luck. hugs.

completelyundefinable · September 2010

Good luck with whatever decision you make. And I'm sorry you're going through this.

((hugs))

JCragg · September 2010

I'm sorry you are going through this. Good luck with baby and future, i'm sure you'll make the best decision for your family and you.

TheCricket · September 2010

I am so happy you have found the path you want to take, and I really hope that you and your DH can look back 50 years from now and think of this time as and isolated blip in an otherwise very happy life.

divakotka · September 2010

Marriage is so incredibly hard at times. It is a choice that you make every single day. Sometimes people stop making that choice for whatever reasons (that must be explored and dealt with) but that doesn't mean that there is no hope for healing and recovery. Obviously every situation is unique and I don't know any details about yours, but I do believe that marriage can overcome adultery. It really depends on the circumstances and also on what your DH wants out of his marriage/life.

You two have a family together, so you have even more to lose if things don't work out. Staying together "just because of the kids" is one thing. But working on improving your marriage and increasing happiness in your life because of your kids is always worth it because divorce typically isn't the answer to people's problems. It just creates a whole new world of challenges, problems, and stress.

Don't give up and surround yourself with people who support you. I also think counseling would be very beneficial.

Good luck, I'll be thinking of you.

pattipu · September 2010

best of luck to you! It will be a long, difficult and confusing road but stay strong and do what's best for you and your babies!

PinkLove-S · September 2010

I hope that you both can mend your relationship and that this heartbreaking situation never happens again. Best of luck to you!

citychicks · September 2010

Thank you so much for the update, I'm sure I'm not the only who hasn't been able to stop thinking about you over the past few days. You have certainly been in my thoughts and prayers. The road ahead will be rocky, but you sound like you are strong enough to face whatever comes. I hope this ends up being just a blip in your marriage and that you two come out stronger. Best wishes and lots of love.

Serpentesbride · September 2010

I am glad he was finally able to come clean. Continue to trust your intuition it did not lead you wrong this time. You may also want to seek counseling. If he is not willing to do couples do it for yourself. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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