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what do colinda, kona and my DH have in common?

aside from being hilarious and nice and smart . . .They all voted to hold out to test til Friday. Or in the case of DH, he's now pushed that to Saturday.

and since it's clear that last month's early loss really affected my DH (I think the return to 'oh, is this really possible?' from "eff it, we're broken' has him spooked - and I totally get it) -- I'm going to listen to him.

so even though chart is a tease and that spotting stopped, I made a vow last night to go straight from bed to bathroom (no stopping to get a test!) until Saturday.  I'm writing it here to make you all hold me to it too.

m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011

Re: what do colinda, kona and my DH have in common?

  • I've been stalking, and very much like what I see.

    I can't believe you're holding out until tomorrow.  I'm going to call you Tenacious (Min)D. 

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  • imageBBHME:

    I've been stalking, and very much like what I see.

    I can't believe you're holding out until tomorrow.  I'm going to call you Tenacious (Min)D. 

    no, saturday. I promised DH. seriously - what was I thinking???

    I will totally announce myself as Tenacious (Min)D when I put my name on the record for my morning cases. "Your honor, Tenacious (Min)D for the Respondent.. ." 

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • Thank you for this update!  I was curious what you decided.  You can do it!!
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  • imagemlmtgg:
    imageBBHME:

    I've been stalking, and very much like what I see.

    I can't believe you're holding out until tomorrow.  I'm going to call you Tenacious (Min)D. 

    no, saturday. I promised DH. seriously - what was I thinking???

    I will totally announce myself as Tenacious (Min)D when I put my name on the record for my morning cases. "Your honor, Tenacious (Min)D for the Respondent.. ." 

    Holy cow even worse/better!  Critical reading fail on my part.  And I'm all for the use in court.  If they question you, say, "look, I'm waiting until CD motherfukking 17 to pee on a stick, I can call myself whatever I want." 

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    4 early losses 2009, 2010, 2015.  Baby #1 born 2/13/11.  
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    imagemlmtgg:
    imageBBHME:

    I've been stalking, and very much like what I see.

    I can't believe you're holding out until tomorrow.  I'm going to call you Tenacious (Min)D. 

    no, saturday. I promised DH. seriously - what was I thinking???

    I will totally announce myself as Tenacious (Min)D when I put my name on the record for my morning cases. "Your honor, Tenacious (Min)D for the Respondent.. ." 

    Holy cow even worse/better!  Critical reading fail on my part.  And I'm all for the use in court.  If they question you, say, "look, I'm waiting until CD motherfukking 17 to pee on a stick, I can call myself whatever I want." 

    Love!

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  • i can't believe your DH asked you to hold out till sat.!  you have some strength lady!  if i didn't have af by 17dpo i'd definitely be KU.  LOL  my LP is on the shorter side though. 

    Anyways, I'll be chart stalking you and Good Luck!!

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    1. This whole thread has me lol-ing
    2. I know dislike Kona, Colinda, and your DH just a tiny bit!
    1. This whole thread has me lol-ing
    2. I now dislike Kona, Colinda, and your DH just a tiny bit!
  • You have way more strength than I would have.  Good luck.
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  • I admire your will power and your chart! I will continue to stalk you!
  • As much as I love Colinda and Kona, and I'm sure your Mr. is lovely, BOOOOOOOO!

    I have no idea how you have the willpower. I bow down to you ma'am.

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  • Omgosh girl you have a lot of patience....you're 15 dpo already and no testing.

    Wishing you LOTS of BFP dust on Saturday. 

    Marie, wife to Ron, mom to DS
  • You're a stronger woman than I!

    Good luck, and I plan on TB stalking you on Saturday morning!!!!

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • This is full of fun ;). I still stand behind Friday, but I can wait until Saturday. I am liking what I see!
  • I give you a lot of creditStick out tongue Hope it is good news!
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  • imagemlmtgg:
    imageBBHME:

    I've been stalking, and very much like what I see.

    I can't believe you're holding out until tomorrow.  I'm going to call you Tenacious (Min)D. 

    no, saturday. I promised DH. seriously - what was I thinking???

    I will totally announce myself as Tenacious (Min)D when I put my name on the record for my morning cases. "Your honor, Tenacious (Min)D for the Respondent.. ." 

    I am all for waiting so I think its a great plan.  I will personally send money to get you out of your contempt charge if you put yourself on the record as Tenacious (Min)D

    BFP 4/23/09. D&E 7/17/09 16W5D. BFP #2 3/10/10. EDD 11/15/10 Babycakes was born 11/5/10! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    1. This whole thread has me lol-ing
    2. I now dislike Kona, Colinda, and your DH just a tiny bit!

    I agree with this. GL Mindy!!

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  • hahaha! That chart does look great. Can't wait for saturday!
  • You are one strong woman!  Good luck on Saturday! 
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  • Good luck!  Your willpower impresses me!
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  • It's good that the world has people like Colinda, Kona, and your DH. . . there needs to be somebody to balance out the silly 6dpo testers, of which I am an embarassed member.
  • you are stronger then I. Can't wait for your post tomorrow!

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  • I am one who tends to wait to test, so I'm pretty much the opposite of a peestick-aholic.  But even I don't know that I could wait until Saturday.

    I think you and DH need to reconvene and discuss tomorrow as the more realistic option.

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  • imagegrr_aargh:
    It's good that the world has people like Colinda, Kona, and your DH. . . there needs to be somebody to balance out the silly 6dpo testers, of which I am an embarassed member.

    I agree completely! Every month I know it will be a BFN but I almost just need to see it so I don't get my hopes up.

    If you have already made it to 15dpo, 2 more days will be ok right? I have never made it to 12 dpo haha nevermind 15dpo. But you are on a roll now :) 

  • I am triple_sevens and I APPROVE this message!

    That chart is crazy gorgeous and I pray it will only be it more so on Saturday :)

    Remember, true love waits.

    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • I'm attempting to delude myself into thinking back to pre-ttcal days (actually, pre-ttc days) when I thought you couldn't test until after AF was really really late.


    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • I think you're a good woman to respect DHs wishes/feelings like that.  But I'm still in awe of your patience!  Reeeeally hope to celebrate a BFP with you on Saturday!!!

    P.S.  Although I think this maneuver would be appropriately symbolic reproductively, I'm afraid you might get disbarred for it:

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    You lawyer ladies are hysterical.  :) 

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  • Good thing you didn't ask me for advice or you would have tested days ago.  Then again, I would probably be writing congrats on your BFP post right now instead of this so it would be win-win.  GL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I'll make sure I log on first thing on Saturday to see your post!
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    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
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  • You have amazing will power! I hope this is it for you!
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  • I, too, have been stalking you. Big Smile  You have great willpower, I'm totally impressed by it and wish I had a fraction of your strength.

     

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  • wow your one strong women. totally loving  your chart.
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  • Your chart looks amazing!  I think I have to set my alarm early for Saturday so I can stalk your BFP post.   GL!!!!!
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  • You have a lot of willpower to wait till saturday. Sending lots of good luck your way.

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