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wife1014
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If you are NOT having epi...
wife1014
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and will most definitely BF will you be using a Bundle Me, crib bumper? Have you had your car seat inspected by a certified inspector? Just curious?
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Re: If you are NOT having epi...
lol! I've always wondered the same thing, but was too afraid to ask...... I guess no one can be perfect:)
eta: also add using sleep positioner in the list and any aftermarket carseat product.
First of all, I fail to see how these items are related.
Secondly, no, no, and not yet.
These things are unrelated but,
Yes I will BF unless a medical reason prevents that. Formula does not have risks to the baby like narcotics do.
No bundle me, or any other add on to the carseat and yes it will be inspected and no bumpers or sleep positioners.
I was told that they aren't safe because they are a projectile risk (you know, hit the baby, etc.) and had to take it off. But, in that case anything that is in the vehicle can pose a risk, I guess.
::giggle::
I dont see how this is related but if your water doesnt break and the Docs have to do it for you, will you save it in a jar?
Yep and I plan on eating my placenta too.
Not recommended since they could detach in an accident and become a projectile. All of these things are only related in that you need to weigh the risks and benefits yourself and decide what is best for you and LO.
Follow up - If you save said water in said jar, will you mix it in a smoothie with the placenta?
Unable to even.
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You don't understand the appeal of Benedict Cumberbatch / think he's fug / don't know who he is? WATCH SHERLOCK. Until you do, your negative opinion of him will not be taken seriously.
Check with the hospital you are delivering at. Most of them have a few days a month that you can come in and they will check it.
Also , Babies R Us has a few days as well.
I just find the whole "epi's are the worst thing possible for the baby" to be so extreme, when many times these same people are also using products that are extremely danerous for their newborns. It's almost contradictory. Its like saying I don't want any drugs in the system of my newborn, but if their car seat straps aren't tight enough and they get thrown from the car seat if I'm in a crash, that's OK.
FWIW, I am planning a natural birth and I do regret having an epi with Olivia. Many reasons I regret the epi are mentioned in studies about side effects. I judge about many things, this one just rubs me the wrong way when there are so many worse things out there which are harmful to our babies.
See, thats what I was thinking. What is the best option for keeping an eye on LO if you're driving alone then?
I thought we would have a celabratory toast with it on LO's 1st Bday? Like Amniotic Shots?
open your damn eyes woman...they both have to do with a baby dont they!? DUH
Only if LO can have one, too. It's not illegal and it teaches him/her the proper way to shoot a beverage.
Maybe a baby-sized keg stand is in order...
Unable to even.
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You don't understand the appeal of Benedict Cumberbatch / think he's fug / don't know who he is? WATCH SHERLOCK. Until you do, your negative opinion of him will not be taken seriously.
Wow, I think I just got a little grossed out....
WHAT!? Brezza said Placenta Smoothie and Amniotic shot grossed you out LMAO
Well, you ladies proved me wrong with this one. I will now go eat my words...
And hell yes, I have the jar ready and waiting.
Oh oh right...sorry.
No, I mean, the negative effects an epi can have are rare and the non-negative ones wear off...BF'ing is something that will stay with a child for the rest of their life.
1. Here's the thing, though--no one has said that. I'm not saying there aren't people who believe this, but I am saying that none of them apparently currently reside on this board, so painting them with the same brush stroke is unbelievably unfair.
2. You realize you're comparing drugs that do cross the placenta to soft goods... Right? You'd be making a better comparison asking if they've drank any alcohol or smoked during their pregnancy or if they'll drink while BF'ing or if they'll go back to smoking. Chemicals=chemicals is a much more fair comparison.
I don't think they are the worst thing for baby, but they are not ok for my LO, IMO. For me it is like drinking or smoking, drugs or taking medications that are not safe during pregnancy unless there is an absolutely medical necessity. I'm not ok with the risks of any of those things.
ETA: I see MSC said something similar just above me.
@ MSC: from being on these boards since March, we seem to have so much in common. It's too bad we live so far away, I think we'd be awesome friends
haha I pictured us standing around a counter, taking shots of fluid that looked like...yuck I can't even finish the sentence.
You mean like being awesome? ;-)
I can't see ittttt waaaahhh
I can't see ittttt waaaahhh
That is number 1 of course among many things. It seems we share the same views and ideas on how we want to parent. I've also read your blog and I have many of the same life, religion and world views as you. Wow, I kind of sound stalkerish....
Francesca Pearl is here! Josephine Hope is almost 3!
1.You may not have said it, but we've definitely gotten that post countless times. Not today, but we've definitely read it.
2. Whether we are putting a small amount of chemicals in our babies systems or risking their air flow in their crib, we are still possibly causing harm. But I can see your point of view.
This was just my random thought today. Carry on.
See, I find the opposite to be silly - women who won't eat lunch meat/hot dogs/caffeine/have half a glass of wine for nine months, but then plan on "getting the epidural in the parking lot" or happily go into an induction without reading up on the risks.
Also, I think epidurals do have a place in labor (and I'm a hardcore med-free labor advocate), but I think they are overused and that more problems can arise when one gets it too early, or runs into problems later when being able to move around in labor would help.
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
Our childbirth class teacher told us that studies are being done that connect pain meds during labor to a poor latch. So I think that epidurals and breastfeeding are connected.
I am not having an epi . . . but I also don't think it's necessarily "bad" for the baby. I actually think it can be worse for the mom who then has to be catherized, pumped full of IV fluids, and prostrate in bed which may cause more interventions. I simply said in today's UO post that when a woman waits until push time, I think "why would you do that?" because now you can't walk/get up and shower, etc. I don't care if women get epis. The late-getters have me scratching my head, that's all. and then a bunch of people chimed in defending themselves and saying if you haven't pushed out a baby, you can't say. lol
back to your question:
no on crib bumpers, maybe on bundleme for certain situations, yes on BF, yes on getting my seat checked out at the police dept. (on this weekend's agenda).
So you're a heathen, too? ;-)
Some people think so. Pretty anti- organized religion here...
ETA: BTW, I also tend to wear the same clothes every Mon when I take my bump pic. I had to purposely think about it this week so I was wearing something different!
My dear, you are such a trouble maker :-)
Hopefully no Epi. Hopefully EBF. No Bundle Me. Breathable bumper.
Hoping to get certified in installation! Work may get in the way......argh :-(