So I am new to this board, but have been on the knot/nest for a while. DH and I have a 3 year old, and are ttgp with baby #2. The only problem is, my DH is active duty Army, and is deployed until December. We plan on trying around end of December when he gets back. Now my question is... when should i stop taking my bc? I obviously don't want to have my period when he's here and I want to make sure we get pregnant right away. Thanks in advance!
Re: new to board..question
There is no way you can guarantee this, but I would stop your BCP NOW & start charting. FF is what a lot of us use around here & the tutorials are REALLY helpful.
9/26/10 stopped BCP and started TTC.
9/2011 referred to RE. All blood work normal and DH's SA=normal results
11/2011 HSG=both tubes clear
One natural (monitored) cycle of Clomid, 50mg 2/2012= BFN
Getting ready for first IUI, 3/2012 received orders to Japan! (postponed IUI)
5/2012 Moved to Japan, fought Tricare for months over referral (no fertility treatment on our military base) for Japanese RE out in town!
8/2012 Started seeing new RE
9/2012, post coital test= hostile cervical fluid, (finally) moving on with first IUI!
9/29/2012 IUI #1+trigger= BFN
10/27/2012 IUI #2+100mg Clomid CD5-9+trigger= BFN
11/28/2012 IUI #3+100mg Clomid CD5-9+trigger= BFN
12/28/2012 IUI#4+100mg Clomid CD5-9+trigger=BFN
2/1/2013 IUI#5+injectables+trigger=BFN
3/2013 IUI#6+injectables+trigger=???
EXACTLY!
Oscar born October 2011
Miscarriage at 8 weeks (August 2013)
DD due September 1, 2014
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Trying for #1 since May 2010 l DX ~ Unexplained Infertility June 2011
IUI #1&2 = BFN; IUI #3 = BFP, m/c @ 6 weeks
November '11 ~ IVF#1 ~ ER 11/18 (29R, 17F) ~ 5dt of one beautiful blast on 11/23 = BFP!!
Beta #1 9dp5dt = 116, P4 = 28 ~ Beta #2 13dp5dt = 700 ~ Beta #3 20dp5dt = 9500, P4 = 26
1st u/s 12/27 - hb of 156!! EDD 8.10.12
**TEAM GREEN!**
Sweet baby boy born 8.18.12
Trying for #2
FET #1 - October '13 - c/p l FET #2 - December '13 - cancelled
l FET #2.2 - 1.30.14 - BFN
~ More testing - hysteroscopy, endometrial biopsy & more b/w - all normal / negative~
Surprise BFP while waiting on FET #3 ~ beta #1 500; beta #2 1600; first u/s 4/3 - measuring 5w5d, no hb yet!; 2nd u/s 4/10 - hb 132, measuring 6w6d - EDD 11.29.14
**TEAM GREEN!**
Beautiful baby girl born 11.24.14
This! You also have to consider it could take a few months for you to get AF when you come off BC. Stop BCP now IMO and start charting. Like PP said, go to fertilityfriend.com by clicking on any of our tickers and read up on all the lessons they have. Good luck!
All of this! Sign up to fertilityfriend.com - you can click on our tickers.
This. You can chart through FertilityFriend.com (click on any of our tickers to get there). They have helpful tutorials to go through that make the process easier to understand. Good luck!
By the way, I just have to say that this made me smile. If only it was that easy!
I never planned on being on my sixth cycle trying, and many women on this board have been trying for much longer than me. I learned pretty quickly that unprotected sex does not equal pregnancy, so just know that this process can take you much longer than you anticipate. 
I wish this could happen just like that! Unfortunately for me (and many others), it does take awhile. I will be starting my sixth cycle soon. Good luck to you, and hopefully it does happen quickly for you!
This. Good luck!