2nd Trimester

Buying alcohol

Today I went out to pick up a Papa Murphy's pizza for dinner (mmmmmm) and DH begged me to stop at the gas station and get him a 40.  I know what you're thinking - she's married to a 19 year old frat boy! - well I'm not, beleive it or not H is a 30 year old successful business man who sometimes like to pretend he's still in college. 

Anyway, I said I'd get him the 40 because I am EXTREMELY nice and he is having a tough week (trying to acquire a company that keeps putting things off and cancelling meetings).  So I walk into the gas station and attempt to suck in my bump, because I'm wearing a dress and I thought it was better to try to pull of just looking like a fat chick buying a 40 than a pregnant chick buying a 40. 

Anybody else get uncomfortable buying alcohol?  I don't mind picking up a bottle of wine at the grocery store so much but I was pretty paranoid that the degenerates hanging out in the convenience store thought I was about to go home and feed my unborn baby some malt liquour Indifferent

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  • LOL! 

    I would be uncomfortable too, I've needed wine for cooking (and I only use stuff good enough to drink none of that cooking wine sh*t), and I haven't because I don't want people to give me the eye.

    Luckily, my mom is here so she bought it..mwah hahahaa

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  • haha. I had to buy a big bottle of beer (not sure if it was a 40?? I never buy beer anyway) to make beer battered fish and felt funny too!

    it is quite comical!

     

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  • I picked up some margaritas for H the other day at the store. I had to pee so bad by the time we checked out so I swiped my card and left my cart with my best friend. When I came back she said, "She needs to ID you and your baby before you can buy it."
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  • Yes, very. We can only buy alcohol in proper liquor stores in BC. They are only open reasonable hours and all the government ones are closed on Sundays. They are all plastered with posters about how bad it is to drink while pregnant. Many of them even have anti-pregger-drinking fridge magnets for you to take home if you want one. I feel like wearing a sign that says "I'm having a dinner party, don't give me that look."
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  • imagecitychicks:
    Many of them even have anti-pregger-drinking fridge magnets for you to take home if you want one. "

    OMG I want one of those hhahaha.  Actually, I want a maternity t-shirt with that on it.  And I will wear it next time I buy 40s at a gas station.

  • One day, we decided to grill and I was making my famous Beer chicken so I had to buy a six pack of 12 ounce cans.  When I got to the counter I made a big deal of asking really loudly, IS THIS THE KIND OF BEER I CAN USE TO GRILL A CHICKEN?  So that I could counter the imaginary stares.

  • Heehee.  I think I should make a point to go buy a bottle of Grey Goose a few weeks before I pop and dare them to say anything.  Or demand that bottle of Taaka from the back shelf.  Just to get a reaction Devil

    Already tried with beer.  I didn't get much of a reaction.  Unsure if I just looked portly or the cashier was tactful enough not the be an a$$ about it

  • imagerobynjdm:

    One day, we decided to grill and I was making my famous Beer chicken so I had to buy a six pack of 12 ounce cans.  When I got to the counter I made a big deal of asking really loudly, IS THIS THE KIND OF BEER I CAN USE TO GRILL A CHICKEN?  So that I could counter the imaginary stares.

    Haha nice - I thought about using this strategy and rolling my eyes at the cashier and saying "I can't beleive my husband drinks this stuff!" but I thought it might make me look more guilty.

  • Nope, none at all.I feel no shame in going into the beer aisle while shopping to make sure DH has beer to drink. If people want to stare and judge me then let them, I know it is not for me, and if people ask I will just tell them it is for my DH. If they have the audacity to say something snarky about it, then I will tell them to kiss my a**!
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    imagecitychicks:
    Many of them even have anti-pregger-drinking fridge magnets for you to take home if you want one. "

    OMG I want one of those hhahaha.  Actually, I want a maternity t-shirt with that on it.  And I will wear it next time I buy 40s at a gas station.

    https://www.bcliquorstores.com/alcohol-pregnancy

    This is there website, but all of the stores are litered with this stuff. It makes me feel half mad (because my OB says a little is ok) and half super ashamed for even being in the store.

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  • I just try to wear clothes that are baggy enough or shaped correctly to cover the bump because I am the only one of me and hubby that even has ID (his was stolen some time ago and he STILL hasn't replaced it). Because I'm nice I'll go buy him smokes, even though I don't smoke myself and never really have but I told him he better get ID soon because I'm not going to feel comfortable buying them when I can't hide the fact I'm pregnant anymore.

    My ex did that to me all the time when I was pregnant with my son and I'd walk into the store, big as a house, and buy him smokes but get retarded death glares. I can't even technically admit that they're not for me either because they'd want to see the ID of the person I'm buying them for or assume I'm bootlegging for someone under age and refuse to sell it to me in the first place! - This is mostly because I look like I'm 17... and naturally would have friends who also look young enough to not be legal.

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  • texas law is that you can't buy beer or wine on sundays until noon. coincidentally that was kickoff time for the Texans v Cowboys game so guess who got sent on a beer run.  i didn't get the side eye for the bump, but i did get grilled on age.  i just feel weird about it because i'm such a judgy mcjudgerson when i see pregnant girls in the liquor store.
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  • Luckily DH buys it when we need it but I bet I would go baggy all the way since I am pathetically self conscious
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  • imagecitychicks:
    Yes, very. We can only buy alcohol in proper liquor stores in BC. They are only open reasonable hours and all the government ones are closed on Sundays. They are all plastered with posters about how bad it is to drink while pregnant. Many of them even have anti-pregger-drinking fridge magnets for you to take home if you want one. I feel like wearing a sign that says "I'm having a dinner party, don't give me that look."

    Exactly! There could be many reasons a pregnant woman is buying alcohol (for family/friends, as a hostess gift, for cooking) besides being an irresponsible drunkard. 

    I haven't had the pleasure of going to the only liquor store in the country (yes) now that I've popped, but I'm sure it'll happen. I think it'll be funny.

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  • LOL!!!!  I bought a bottle of Captain Morgan for my friends bach. party last weekend (it's her favorite), and felt soo uncomfortable.  I am not really showing a whole lot, and really I just look fat right now.  But, I still felt the daggers being thrown into my back by the other customers.

     

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  • Ugh, nothing beats this:

    Toward the end of my 1st tri, I went out with my friend to get some things to make dinner... her and DH wanted to have a few drinks before then, so I went to the liquor store to buy them a bottle of rum (for rum & coke) and who walks in??

    My DH's ex... that's right, the mother of my step-son!!!! Coincidentally she had JUST found out two days beforehand that I was pregnant and came to our house to *** me out, and now she was watching me buy a bottle of rum. lol... That was a little awkward!!! haha.

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