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jmk0924jmk0924 member
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Hi everyone, My DH and I have been trying to preggers for 3 years now with one miscarriage. We went under IUI this past cycle and now I think my DH is not interested in me anymore. Its like he is looking at me differently now. I know he loves me and everything but there is something there now. Everytime I want to make love he doesnt want to do it. We got into a big fight about it last night and I dont know what to do. How do I get him interested and not look at me differently?
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Re: Hi Everyone

  • prplscrubsprplscrubs member
    Hi jmk! So sorry you are going through this. maybe he is feeling different about himself? Like he can't do it so why should he disappoint you again? I am not sure, and not taking sides either! I know its hard for you too... just looking at different things ya know? Maybe try a romantic candle light dinner or something to help ease things in and make things fun and romantic? I'm sure after 3 years and a mc its hard on you both and you two are just dealing with it in different ways... if he is like my DH he probably wont talk about it and keeps it all to himself which is hard for you to see how hes dealing with it and what you can do to help him and make things work a little easier. Not sure I helped you, but I hope you know we're here for you throughout your journey!
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  • jmk0924jmk0924 member
    Thanks prplscrubs! I appreciate it your insight. I gutess I never really thought about it like that. He knows the problem isnt him though. He was checked and he has awesome sperm. It is really hard. He doesnt talk about things with me and I would really like him to.  I will try to make something romantic for him. I really appreciate it the post. I really need people to talk to about this.
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  • prplscrubsprplscrubs member
    not a problem! like i said my DH doesn't talk about much either so I totally understand needing to get it out and talk to someone who understands! hope it works and you'll have to keep me posted! :) GL
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