I've got an even better one; actually, I wrote about it in my blog when it happened I was so pissed/mad/jealous. My cousin who got married on May 22 announced her BFP on FB on June 27. Her due date is February 25; you do the math...
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The "funny" thing is, that I know she's not IF. So being that she's 6 wks means she (more than likely) hasn't seen a Dr yet, hasn't had blood work, and for sure hasn't had an ultrasound.
But I'm sure, unlike me, her pregnancy really will result in a live baby.
Infertility has jaded me.
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TTC #1 Dx: severe MFI
IVF with ICSI #1: BFP
TESE for DH 08/09/09
ER 08/09/09; ET 08/14/09; Beta #1 08/23/09: 150; Beta #2 08/25/09: 267
TTC #2: FET #1: BFP
ET 06/16/11; Beta #1 06/25/11: 282; Beta #2 06/27/11: 777
First u/s: Twins! Baby A stopped growing @ 9 weeks, forever in our hearts
TTC #3: FET #2: c/p lost at 4 weeks
Ignorance really is bliss in some cases, I guess. I actually saw a FB announcement this mornign that was just a picture of the pee stick. Pretty sure it wasn't even dry yet.
I've been wondering lately if all of this IF stuff has ruined pregnancy for me. I'm kind of afraid I'll be to scared to ever really celebrate it. Or if I'll be afraid to talk about it in front of people in case they're dealing with IF.
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I kind of think to each their own... I swore that I would keep it hush hush for awhile, but I honestly think the whole town knew by the time i was 7 weeks and I bought my crib at 8 weeks. My husband and I were ttc for over a year so we just couldn't contain our joy when we found out. We had promised eachother we would keep it quite, because my best friend had recently lost a baby at 10 weeks and we didn't want to put all our loved ones through that again, but as soon as that stick showed a plus sign we were calling family like crazy. I guess even though we all have our own stories of struggles and heartache we need to stay positive and supportive. And most of all lets not forget to pray for each and every miracle! Best wishes to all
friend of mine had an oops pregnancy first go-round, so let's just say she has no idea what causes pregnancy or how it works at.all.
now they're ttc#2 and she got KU, announced to the world at 5weeks, then lost it at 6weeks. she even told her 3yr old. then she gets KU again. announces at 5weeks and loses it at 5 1/2 weeks. told her 3yr old that time too. some people NEVER learn.
also, mandy makes a good point
Baby Boy O born 4/5/2010, 7lbs 14oz, 20", at 38w by c-section due to pre-e & failed induction
I have zero desire to stay positive and supportive.
Just in case anyone was wondering.
I'm with you.
I don't think it's in me to be positive at this point and I really struggle to keep my unsupportive thoughts to myself. Mostly because I feel guilty even thinking some of them.
To be honest I don't even think I'm in the "happy for them, sad for me" stage anymore. I'm just bitter and angry.
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I have zero desire to stay positive and supportive.
Just in case anyone was wondering.
I'm with you.
I don't think it's in me to be positive at this point and I really struggle to keep my unsupportive thoughts to myself. Mostly because I feel guilty even thinking some of them.
To be honest I don't even think I'm in the "happy for them, sad for me" stage anymore. I'm just bitter and angry.
I'm the fuucking president of the bitter and angry club. I past "sad for me, happy for them" loooooooong ago.
I have zero desire to stay positive and supportive.
Just in case anyone was wondering.
I'm with you.
I don't think it's in me to be positive at this point and I really struggle to keep my unsupportive thoughts to myself. Mostly because I feel guilty even thinking some of them.
To be honest I don't even think I'm in the "happy for them, sad for me" stage anymore. I'm just bitter and angry.
I'm the fuucking president of the bitter and angry club. I past "sad for me, happy for them" loooooooong ago.
I have zero desire to stay positive and supportive.
Just in case anyone was wondering.
I'm with you.
I don't think it's in me to be positive at this point and I really struggle to keep my unsupportive thoughts to myself. Mostly because I feel guilty even thinking some of them.
To be honest I don't even think I'm in the "happy for them, sad for me" stage anymore. I'm just bitter and angry.
I'm the fuucking president of the bitter and angry club. I past "sad for me, happy for them" loooooooong ago.
She is. I've seen her badge.
And this post may have gone in a totally different direction had I not proof read it before clicking Post. The V and the B shouldn't be so close together on the keyboard.
I have zero desire to stay positive and supportive.
Just in case anyone was wondering.
I'm with you.
I don't think it's in me to be positive at this point and I really struggle to keep my unsupportive thoughts to myself. Mostly because I feel guilty even thinking some of them.
To be honest I don't even think I'm in the "happy for them, sad for me" stage anymore. I'm just bitter and angry.
I'm the fuucking president of the bitter and angry club. I past "sad for me, happy for them" loooooooong ago.
She is. I've seen her badge.
And this post may have gone in a totally different direction had I not proof read it before clicking Post. The V and the B shouldn't be so close together on the keyboard.
hahahahaha!
And you quoted me before I could go change my typo. Damnit.
Re: 6 weeks pg
TTC #1 - May 2010 - IUI #3: BFP
TTC #2 - May 2012 -IUI #2: BFP
I think it will be interesting to see if my fb friends know I have a child before they enter college.
I would so not be announcing it at 6 weeks.
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."
I plan on announcing when my water breaks @ this point.
The "funny" thing is, that I know she's not IF. So being that she's 6 wks means she (more than likely) hasn't seen a Dr yet, hasn't had blood work, and for sure hasn't had an ultrasound.
But I'm sure, unlike me, her pregnancy really will result in a live baby.
Infertility has jaded me.
IVF with ICSI #1: BFP
TESE for DH 08/09/09
ER 08/09/09; ET 08/14/09; Beta #1 08/23/09: 150; Beta #2 08/25/09: 267
TTC #2: FET #1: BFP
ET 06/16/11; Beta #1 06/25/11: 282; Beta #2 06/27/11: 777
First u/s: Twins! Baby A stopped growing @ 9 weeks, forever in our hearts
TTC #3: FET #2: c/p lost at 4 weeks
Ignorance really is bliss in some cases, I guess. I actually saw a FB announcement this mornign that was just a picture of the pee stick. Pretty sure it wasn't even dry yet.
I've been wondering lately if all of this IF stuff has ruined pregnancy for me. I'm kind of afraid I'll be to scared to ever really celebrate it. Or if I'll be afraid to talk about it in front of people in case they're dealing with IF.
I have zero desire to stay positive and supportive.
Just in case anyone was wondering.
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."
friend of mine had an oops pregnancy first go-round, so let's just say she has no idea what causes pregnancy or how it works at.all.
now they're ttc#2 and she got KU, announced to the world at 5weeks, then lost it at 6weeks. she even told her 3yr old. then she gets KU again. announces at 5weeks and loses it at 5 1/2 weeks. told her 3yr old that time too. some people NEVER learn.
also, mandy makes a good point
TTC#1 Chart
TTC#2 Chart
IUI #1 - #4 (repronex trigger) = BFN
IUI#5 on 10/28/2008 ** BFP 11/10/08 ** EDD 07/21/09 *** It's a GIRL (07/14/09)
med/treatment free BFP 06/28/10. EDD 03/05/11 *** GIRL #2 (02/23/11)
beta#1 @ 17dpo = 1296 .... beta#2 @ 19dpo = 3034
it's the Bug and Baby Belle!
I'm with you.
I don't think it's in me to be positive at this point and I really struggle to keep my unsupportive thoughts to myself. Mostly because I feel guilty even thinking some of them.
To be honest I don't even think I'm in the "happy for them, sad for me" stage anymore. I'm just bitter and angry.
Chart/Blog
Nothing breeds faster than Crazy
I'm the fuucking president of the bitter and angry club. I past "sad for me, happy for them" loooooooong ago.
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."
She is. I've seen her badge.
And this post may have gone in a totally different direction had I not proof read it before clicking Post. The V and the B shouldn't be so close together on the keyboard.
hahahahaha!
And you quoted me before I could go change my typo. Damnit.
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."