Ugh, I feel like we're on some time clock to get pregnant. Actually, we are...DH deploys right at the top of the new year and we'll have to take a 6-8 month break. It just frustrates me I guess. I don't like feeling that we're on a schedule, I guess. Could be a good thing though when he comes home. When he got home in 2009 from deployment it was a bigger blessing than we could have ever imagined! We'd been TTC for a while before he deployed, then he deployed for 5 months, came home and we got our BFP.
Then to top it off my 18 yr old cousin announced she's KU. I know it shouldn't bother me but it kind of does since she can scarcely care for her own self. Just worries me more than anything I guess. And, I am super excited for another baby in the family. I'm just too emotional today.
*vent over* thanks for reading if you did I'm trying to see the positives (pardon the pun) in everything
Re: May I vent?
I can sympathize. My husband is also in the Air Force, and I really, really thought we would have a baby by now.
He was deployed last year so that threw our plan off. He isn't deploying again soon, but we are PCS-ing next summer (maybe to Europe!) and I know I can't fly if I am full term pregnant.
Good luck, I hope you get your BFP prior to then. I get it.
DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d