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Question about child support

I have been holding off on this b/c things have been going so great...didn't think I was going to have to actually pursue this. But, I'm afraid that as much as wish I could say that I can't wait to get to know yall, I am heartbroken I am having to come over here.

Anyway...point is. How soon can I file for cs? Do I have to wait till she's born before I file? What can I have ready so I don't have to do much when she's born? I live in TX if that helps at all.

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Re: Question about child support

  • In PA I couldn't file until my son was born. I had to have his social security card and birth certificate. Besides that I had to give them my ex's name, address, social security number and work info.

    For the actual conference I have to take 6 months of paystubs, W-2s, and last year's taxes.

    Good luck with everything. 

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    In PA I couldn't file until my son was born. I had to have his social security card and birth certificate. Besides that I had to give them my ex's name, address, social security number and work info.

    For the actual conference I have to take 6 months of paystubs, W-2s, and last year's taxes.

    Good luck with everything. 

    This, exactly.  And I live in AL.  Plus, when you deliver, if your ex is at the birth and signs acknowledgment of paternity then it'll be easier to file the c/s motion.  If he is not there or refuses to acknowledge paternity, a paternity test must be ordered and paternity must be established before any motions to file for child support.

  • here in MN you can file whenever but for any with-holdings/payments, you would have to wait until lo is born.

    it's not your responsibility to provide his information. they will send paperwork to DB and he has to fill out his information, and if he fails to turn it in by the date requested, he's screwed. 

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  • Are you married to the father? If so you cant even get a divorce till after LO is born.
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    Are you married to the father? If so you cant even get a divorce till after LO is born.

    Once again, advice from a 19 year old who has never been a single parent.  Confused

    This is not true in every state.  I was able to get a divorce while pregnant.  I didn't include my baby in the custody agreement or the child support, however.  I have to take my ex back to court now, so in hindsight it might have been easier to wait.   

     Most states will not allow you to file for CS until a child is born.  They want to be sure the child is born healthy, and in some cases, have a DNA test.  In the mean time, if you can get copies of all financial and property records, do it and keep them in a safe place.  You will need this later, so get it while you have access to it.

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    imagemommamathews3719:
    Are you married to the father? If so you cant even get a divorce till after LO is born.

    Once again, advice from a 19 year old who has never been a single parent.  Confused

    This is not true in every state.  I was able to get a divorce while pregnant.  I didn't include my baby in the custody agreement or the child support, however.  I have to take my ex back to court now, so in hindsight it might have been easier to wait.   

     Most states will not allow you to file for CS until a child is born.  They want to be sure the child is born healthy, and in some cases, have a DNA test.  In the mean time, if you can get copies of all financial and property records, do it and keep them in a safe place.  You will need this later, so get it while you have access to it.

     

    This.  Exactly.  However, custody has to be determined after LO is born, as well as CS. 

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    I have been holding off on this b/c things have been going so great...didn't think I was going to have to actually pursue this. But, I'm afraid that as much as wish I could say that I can't wait to get to know yall, I am heartbroken I am having to come over here.

     

     

    I'm in the same boat as you seems like. I keep holding things off in hopes that it will get better but it's becoming very obvious that im going to be joining this group as well!! GL to you!

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  • Thank you all for your advice. No, were not married. So, thank goodness I don't have to go thru all that as well. This is just not fun to even think about...I've got so many other things I have to worry about and this is the last thing that I wished I had to deal with.

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  • imagemommamathews3719:
    Are you married to the father? If so you cant even get a divorce till after LO is born.
    Even if this WAS true, which it isn't, what does it matter? She was asking when she could file for support, which you don't have to be divorced to do. The only reason it will matter if she is married or not will be to determine if paternity has to be established or if it will be assumed.
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