I'm an adult adoptee, my son was recently adopted by my husband and currently a grad student working on my thesis. Because of the timing of my thesis, my going through the adoption process (for my son) and growing up knowing I was adopted, I chose to do my thesis on the adoptive parent view of adoption fees.
I'm trying to write my questions, which will be sent to adoptive parents, and I keep wondering if this will come across as insensitive or offensive. I'm not asking about how much the adoption cost or what means they took to finance the fees, but I can't help but feel it feels very cold and impersonal. My goal is to hopefully gain some insight on how some parents were able to afford the fees and share this with prospective parents.
I guess I'm wondering how you would feel about someone asking you what your perspective was on the fees incurred? Would you be willing to share (in an online survey) your truthful opinions or am I wasting my time on this subject?