I actually think the majority of us would totally approve of you being so hands on while still respecting BM's opinion.?
Especially if you maintain visitation when your H is deployed, you HAVE to be able to step up and make decisions.
BM and I have also made recent repairs on our relationship, and it weirds DH out too, but at the same time he like that ONE of us can communicate positively with BM.?
That is great that all 3 of you (BM, SD and yourself) all have a good relationship. I am wondering if your husb. is trying to sabatoge your friendship with BM by causing waves with the morality clause, lol. It seems like everyone is in a good place and that is wonderful for your SD.
Ooglybear
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Re: a belated introduction
Thanks for the intro! I'm glad that you and BM have a good relationship!
I'd love to be more involved, but it's not going to necessarily happen. That's ok, I have made some attempts and DH is aware of this...
Sounds like you're in a good place.(as I try to remember your last post! sorry!)
Ha! My last two posts have been regarding the couple of negative things going on, but overall we are in a really good place.
I actually think the majority of us would totally approve of you being so hands on while still respecting BM's opinion.?
Especially if you maintain visitation when your H is deployed, you HAVE to be able to step up and make decisions.
BM and I have also made recent repairs on our relationship, and it weirds DH out too, but at the same time he like that ONE of us can communicate positively with BM.?
Anywho, welcome!?