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Have to vent about all the BFP

zeta601zeta601
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It has been a long while since I have posted but I KNOW you ladies will understand and most of you have been here too. I am on my 7th cycle now ttc, and not only are my groups of friends who have been pregnant are having their babies (or had their babies recently), but now more are getting pregnant. Just found out last night (an 11 pm call from Las Vegas), that our friends who have been married since the end of July are now pregnant. My husband does not understand how frustrating it is. I get the old line "it will happen when it happens"! ARRRRGGHHHH !!!!! Anyhow, thanks for listening lol now back to work.
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  • juls052309juls052309
    I am there now with you! My husband had the nerve to tell me last night to "relax and it will happen!' He is lucky when I did relax that I didnt throat punch him for that lame comment! It definately stinks but hang in there, hopefully this is YOUR cycle!!
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  • zeta601zeta601

    He is lucky when I did relax that I didnt throat punch him for that lame comment!

     

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  • 99luftballoons99luftballoons

    My friends having babies hasn't bothered me so much, it's the 1 or 2 that are now on their second pregnancy/baby while I'm still trying for my first that makes me sad for some reason :(

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  • cozylittlecavecozylittlecave
    yeah... the "it'll happen when it's meant to" stings... particularly after a m/c! People don't seem to realize the best course is usually "I'm sorry" and that's it. Unless you're in the exact. same. situation.
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  • limpetfanlimpetfan member

    I hate the "it'll happen when it happens" and "you just have to relax" comments, too!  Especially when they come from people who are pregnant, or just had their first or second baby, after not having to try at all. Makes it hard not to have just a tiny twinge of resentment.  

    Damn, now I'm all irritated with people I haven't even spoken to in several days!!! 

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  • klauthklauth member
    I am right there with you! I am now on cycle 8 and it seems like everyone around me is getting pregnant besides me. It didn't seem to bother me till I found out my sister is pregnant and my BF is now pregnant with her second. Hopefully we will both get a BFP soon!

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  • shortpooleshortpoole
    I'm with ya, I am also on cycle 7, which means pregnancies we found out about when we started are almost full term.  I have been pretty happy for my friends but most of them are on their second child and none of them have ANY issues getting PG within the first or second months. 
     
    On Friday, at work I went to the washroom and found AF.  Went to my car for an early lunch and to be down for a little and when I got back not one but two ladies in my department made expecting announcements....... that one stung. 
     
    PS - I love "throat punch", and would have felt the very same way!
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  • LauraElizabeth85LauraElizabeth85 member
    Totally understandable! I feel like everyone is getting KU around me (although Im sure Im just being more aware of it now that we are ttc). I always have to check myself and be reminded of that fact that you dont always know the back story of that pregnancy and that there may be someone feeling the same way I do now if & when I get KU.
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