I don't care today = (

rxy5309 · September 2010

Dear insensitive coworker:

You very negative person. Quit poo pooing breastfeeding and telling me I will have a hard time with it and that it's not worth it because it wasn't the choice you made. I have no clue what it is like, but I would like to try it before saying no to it so let me stay a little positive.

I don't care how you don't feel like you have that bond with your baby most people have who breast feed and how they are crazy becasue they get so emotional about it(24 year old girl who likes to rub it in my face that you had a baby before me) (There is nothing wrong with her being younger then me she just likes to rub it in that she got pregnant and had a baby before I did) (Seriously she likes to rub it in not even joking)

I don't want to hear all of the BAD things about having a baby. You just had him BE HAPPY! I would kill for what you have right now. I am in the process of trying to have one and looking forward to everything to come so let's be a little positive!

Just LEAVE ME ALONE!!! Why can't you just leave me ALONE! I am going to start locking my classroom door.

This week shall kill me = (

Maddikakes · September 2010

Sounds like she's probably jealous/upset bc you and your H really want a baby and it doesn't sound like she really did. At least not for the right reasons. Keep your chin held high and I'm glad it's you and not me bc I think I'd slapabitch.

SheElf · September 2010

Maddikakes:
Sounds like she's probably jealous/upset bc you and your H really want a baby and it doesn't sound like she really did. At least not for the right reasons. Keep your chin held high and I'm glad it's you and not me bc I think I'd slapabitch.

It sounds like to compensate for not having any idea what she's doing, your coworker is trying to minimize you. She's a bully.

I support the *** slap BTW.

catahoulatte · September 2010

I am so sorry to hear it. What an insensitive witch. At least you are getting prime examples of how people shouldn't act. I know when you get your BFP you will be so grateful and excited about the experiences, not putting people down.

jesh1111 · September 2010

I had my friend telling me how hard it was to breastfeed and not worth it while I was pregnant and it made me worry the entire pregnancy that I wouldn't be able to do it. My sister only made it a month with her kids so I thought it would be that way for me too.

They both had horror stories for me from nursing to labor to colic.

Don't listen, they were wrong about everything. Every baby is different and every mother is different. Nursing might take work or it might come easy for you.

I am sorry that kid is rubbing it in your face but it sounds like she had some tough times and might be thinking she wasn't ready for a baby yet.

Wow, I went on a rant. There are no BAD things about having a baby, like any relationship there are HARD things but I wouldn't consider anything BAD.

gina&dave07 · September 2010

I am sorry you have to deal with this! What a way to start the week. I hope she leaves you alone soon.

Maddikakes · September 2010

SheElf:
Maddikakes:
Sounds like she's probably jealous/upset bc you and your H really want a baby and it doesn't sound like she really did. At least not for the right reasons. Keep your chin held high and I'm glad it's you and not me bc I think I'd slapabitch.

It sounds like to compensate for not having any idea what she's doing, your coworker is trying to minimize you. She's a bully.
I support the *** slap BTW.

Yes

Ceridwen21 · September 2010

I would not engage in baby-related conversation with this person. You're not even pregnant and she's pushing her issues on you. Imagine how much worse it will get? Set the boundary now.

melissa721 · September 2010

Tell the biatch to STFU.

Becosh · September 2010

Wow. I don't even know what I would do if someone was telling me stuff like that. Sorry you have to deal with this. I hope she leaves you alone!!

reinstone · September 2010

melissa721:
Tell the biatch to STFU.

Ditto!

Magenta728 · September 2010

Ceridwen21:
I would not engage in baby-related conversation with this person. You're not even pregnant and she's pushing her issues on you. Imagine how much worse it will get? Set the boundary now.

Yes