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Having a really bad day...

lilcoco13lilcoco13 member
in May 2011 Moms
I woke up feeling really sad and started crying on and off all day. I couldn't figure out why, anything was setting me off. I had to go to a meeting with my parents about my dads parkinsons and I could not concentrate. My parents kept asking me what was wrong, but since we aren't telling anyone yet, I just kept saying I was tired from work. Then my sister gave me hell because we didn't tell her about the meeting, even though she never wants to go to these things, so that set me of crying again. Now I just got hom e and when I went to the bathroom I had some spotting. Just some light pink coloured CM but, it is scaring the living hell outta me and I don't know what to do. My doctor is only in the office in the mornings, I haven't even seen an OB yet. I haven't had an U/S. I am supposed to work nights tonight and all I want to do is curl into a ball and hope this baby is sticking!! I am not having any cramping. Any advice?? Please?

DS1 Born Apr 29 2011

DS2 Born Nov 5 2013

Pregnant with #3 Dec 24 2014, MMC found at 10w, D&C Feb 10th 2015

Cautious BFP May 25th 2015 EDD Feb 6 2016

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Re: Having a really bad day...

  • may_2011may_2011
    I don't have any advice, but I've already said a prayer for you.  Hugs!
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  • ErosEros
    Ts & Ps for you.  Is there any way you can call out tonight?  Sounds like you need a night off. 
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  • sparkymcgeeesparkymcgeee member
    I don't have any advice other than if it gets worse to go to the ER but I just wanted to say that I'm really sorry you are having a hard day. And not being able to explain is so hard as well. I'll be thinking about you. Good luck and try and relax.


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  • kmajeedkmajeed
    Sending prayers as well.. I KNOW exactly how you feel.. there has been so much talk about recent losses, that its taking a toll on me. I won't be on BUMP until 2 weeks, when I can see my baby and feel a little more optimistic.
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  • Liz21714Liz21714
    Sending thoughts and prayers your way!
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  • mrs pHmrs pH

    I agree with the advice of taking off from work if you can. And definitely, if the spotting gets worse and you cant get a hold of your OB, go to the ER.  

    Today, I've been quite the emotional roller coaster and I wish I had taken the day off.  I hate crying in public/at work.  I finally broke down around 2:00 and my boss just said to go home and take the rest of the day.  I have to say, even though I still feel like crying, I feel better be laying down and relaxing... not having to worry about work stuff. 

    Feel better and I hope the spotting goes away!
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  • lilcoco13lilcoco13 member

    Thanks for the support girls. I did end up calling sick to work, which just upsets me more b/c I work with a bunch of women who talk sh*t about anyone who calls in sick...which I know is a small price to pay to try and make this baby stick, but it just adds to my stress. I appreciate your T&P and glad that my post and the posts that came before me didn't make everyone have to take a break from the bump for 2 weeks.

    DS1 Born Apr 29 2011

    DS2 Born Nov 5 2013

    Pregnant with #3 Dec 24 2014, MMC found at 10w, D&C Feb 10th 2015

    Cautious BFP May 25th 2015 EDD Feb 6 2016

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  • iris427iris427 member
    I had pink spotting 4 weeks ago.  Try not to freak out (easier said than done!)  I hope everything is ok and some of your stress lets up :)
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  • jg_girl1jg_girl1 member

    With so much stress on you right now it is not surprising that you are crying. I absolutely hate those days "when it rains it pours"  I know this is way easier said than done but if you have time before work grab a tub of ice cream and curl up with a good movie or book. Anything that can take you out of realty even for just 15 minutes may help you clear your head. If it is at all possible to stay home tonight without any repercussions you should definitely do it.

    *pouring the T & P's your way*

     

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  • NeverEnoughTimeNeverEnoughTime

    T&P for you! I know I am a little late, but I was going to suggest calling in sick as well. FVck those girls at work, you do whats best for you. Take it easy tonight. 

    And, off topic, but I pm'd you a couple days ago :)

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  • lilcoco13lilcoco13 member
    imageNeverEnoughTime:

    T&P for you! I know I am a little late, but I was going to suggest calling in sick as well. FVck those girls at work, you do whats best for you. Take it easy tonight. 

    And, off topic, but I pm'd you a couple days ago :)

    You have been PM'd back:)

    DS1 Born Apr 29 2011

    DS2 Born Nov 5 2013

    Pregnant with #3 Dec 24 2014, MMC found at 10w, D&C Feb 10th 2015

    Cautious BFP May 25th 2015 EDD Feb 6 2016

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  • StephcaraStephcara

    I am so sorry. Rest and take care of yourself first off. Monitor the spotting and call your OB in the AM.

    Many hugs to you.

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