I was due on Tuesday but I'm only 1cm dilated today & the baby hasn't dropped! We are so ready & everyone keeps calling to see if our baby has arrived so this is driving me absolutely crazy, and I took off work this week when I probably should have kept working! My doctor won't induce & kind of made me feel bad for asking about it, but I'm scared we might end up waiting a whole 2 weeks more!?
Me: 42, DH: 43.
We are so grateful to have a 2yr old daughter, conceived naturally after 3 miscarriages & no treatments (our Dr. gave us 1 more month to try on our own before advacing to IVF, & we conceived her naturally in January 2010)!
Trying since April 2011 without sucess....MD said we were both "fine" & that if it wasn't happening, it was a chromosomal issue.
Finally started Follistim 225mcg injections with an Ovidrel trigger November 2012. Bleeding 11 days post Ovidrel on November 25th.
Starting the whole lab/Ultrasound/Follistim cycle again on November 27th...
Re: Past due--how long can they wait to induce?
I think every Dr is different, but I have not heard about people going much past 42 weeks maximum.
My Dr won't even discuss induction (unless there is a medical problem of course!) until after the due date. My due date is this Sunday so I'm going in Monday for a check and to discuss my options/his recommendations.
I also hate the thought of 42 weeks but I'm going to do what my Dr thinks is best.
The standard when I had my son was 7-10 days before chemical induction methods.
Honestly, if your body isn't ready, an induction of any kind isn't likely to take and you were only due 2 days ago. First babies are on average (I think) about 8 days "late".
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I was so stressed with DS- he was 1.5 weeks late and it wasn't until I had a nice relaxing bath and a couple of sips of wine that my water broke...
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you're not overdue until after 42 weeks. the average first pregnancy in the US goes 8 days past 40 weeks and longer in other places around the world.
i would definitely make sure they're monitoring you, though, especially depending on your age because the longer you go, the amount of amniotic fluid goes down. i don't think it's supposed to start decreasing until around 42 weeks but it can differ from person to person and they should measure it via ultrasound on a regular [weekly?] basis until you deliver.
have you discussed induction techniques with your doctor? you might ask about having your membranes stripped to move things along after a certain point.
remember that even if you know your ovulation/ conception date, your due date is only an estimation and not a deadline. sometimes babies are ready earlier than that and some born at 40 weeks could have used a little more time. try to trust your body.
Ask your doctor - every practice is different and every hospital is different.
Mine will start to discuss it (if its your first baby) about a week after. But if its your second or more baby and you've had a successful induction before, she will consider it 10 days prior to your due date if its an elective one - but that's after having a level 2 ultrasound to check on everything.
FWIW, I was induced with DD 1 day past my due date and I have zero progress... I was considered 50% effaced, but even that numbered varied based on who was checking me. I was considered "highly unfavorable" and was even told after 4 hours that if nothing had happened in the next 4 hours, I would be sent home to wait it out and they wouldn't attempt again. I delivered vaginally 16 hours after they started the entire process, so you CAN go from highly unfavorable to successful. If they had given me my epidural when I asked instead of 12 hours after I asked, I probably would have gone faster... I stalled at 5cm for 6 hours, but once I got the epi, I went from 5cm to 10cm and pushing in 30 minutes.
It's not a "bad thing", so to speak, but many times if your body isn't ready for the induction, it won't be a successful one and you could end up having a c-section. I would suggest doing some research on inductions so you know if you may/may not want to be induced.