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Been MIA...wishing I had better news to share...

Sorry ladies, I have been very MIA lately. I am struggling with what DH and I are going through TTC. I wish I was here with good news but I am not. The link below is an update on me as of yesterday and today.

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/42637383.aspx

Please keep us in your prayers. We are in a pretty dark place right now...

 

DD born 8/24/07
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
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4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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Re: Been MIA...wishing I had better news to share...

  • I am SO sorry.  Its so unfair that some people have a million babies and don't want them and people like you have difficulty. I'll be praying for you, sweetie.
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  • I'm so sorry.  Ya'll are in my prayers and big hugs to you. 
  • Oh Lindsey, I am so sorry.  I hate that you are going through this.  I feel like such an a*s for calling you this morning about something that I'm sure you did not even feel like thinking about when you are going through something so tough.  I had no idea you were dealing with this or I wouldn't have bothered you.  Like you wrote though, at least now you know that you CAN get pregnant and that is huge!  That should definitely give you hope.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. 
  • I am so, so sorry.  I will be praying for all of you!
  • (((hugs))) I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this.  You and your family will be in my prayers.  I
  • I'm really sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
  • I am so sorry.  I wish I could say something to make it better but I know you are breaking into pieces.  I will keep you and DH in my T&P.  The good news is that now you know you CAN get pregnant.  Let me know if you need anything.
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  • Lindsey, I am so sorry!! I hate that you are going through this. Please let me know if there is anything I can do! Ya'll are in my thoughts and prayers!!
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  • Thanks everyone. It's been a really hard few months. It can only go up from here right? I am just ready to move past this. 
    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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  • imageFutureMrsWagner:
    Oh Lindsey, I am so sorry.  I hate that you are going through this.  I feel like such an a*s for calling you this morning about something that I'm sure you did not even feel like thinking about when you are going through something so tough.  I had no idea you were dealing with this or I wouldn't have bothered you.  Like you wrote though, at least now you know that you CAN get pregnant and that is huge!  That should definitely give you hope.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. 

    Aww...Monica DO NOT feel bad for calling. There is no way you could have known. I have to set my own troubles aside no matter what they are. I am so happy to be doing this for her. It means so much to me. At the point I talked to you, I knew it wasn't going to end good but hadn't gotten the final word yet. Really, please don't be hard on yourself.  

    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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  • I am so sorry!! :( I hate that this has been such a tough road for you. But you are right that that you should be encouraged that you CAN get pregnant.

    I know it doesn't help really, but I have heard a lot of great stories on the bump and IRL when it comes to IF. I know your journey can have a happy ending too. Hang in there, girl. *big hugs* 

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  • Oh sweetie, I'm so very sorry!  Having to do methotrexate is just insult to injury, IMO.  Let me know if you have any questions about it.  I had to do it with my 1st medicated cycle.  Y'all are in my thoughts and prayers.  Again, I'm so sorry.  :( 

  • I'm so sorry, Lindsey.  If you ever want to talk, feel free to PM me on Facebook.  While I don't know the pain you're going through right now after a m/c, I know how much IF sucks.  I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers.  *hugs*
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  • "The deeper sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~Kahlil Gibran (my favorite quote)

     

    After experiencing 8 losses of my own at varying stages before getting pregnant with my Daughter due in December - I understand the hurt and pain you are feeling.  Please don't be to hard on yourself, allow yourself time to grieve, you need it.

    T&P

    Amanda

  • ((hugs)) so sorry you are dealing with this! you are in my t&p's
  • So very sorry you are going through so much...
  • I'm so sorry to hear this but it is good to know you can get pregnant. You guys will be in our prayers!
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  • I can't imagine how you are feeling, but I am so sorry that you are having to go through this, and I will have you in my prayers.
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  • I am so sorry.  I don't know the pain of IF, but do know the pain of m/c.  I can't imagine what you are feeling going through both.  T&Ps for you!
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    m/c 05/2009
    DD born 8/9/10
    TTC #2 since 8/2012
    CP 12/2012
    dx MFI 10/2013
    Surprise BFP 11/6/2013  EDD 7/19/2014
    Beta #1 15 dpo HCG 355 Prog 30.9
    Beta #2 22 dpo HCG 8147 Prog 18.8
    Beta #3 29 dpo HCG 44580 Prog 29.8

  • Oh gosh, thanks ladies.... Crying
    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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  • I can't imagine what you are going through right now, but I am definitely thinking about you and praying for you and your husband right now. 
    Allie ~ 01/26/09 ~ 7 lbs, 9 oz ~ 20.75 in. & Amelia ~ 03/16/11 ~ 8 lbs, 1 oz ~ 21 in.

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  • I am so sorry Lindsey! I hate that you have to go thru this! My thoughts and prayers are with you! I am hoping everything will start to look up from here! Lots of HUGS!!
  • So sorry for your loss, however, it is bittersweet since you now know that you can get pregnant and hopefully will again soon!! Continuing to pray!
  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this Lindsey. The pain of our m/c is still very fresh and while you may have not known you were pg for very long, it was a loss of a child and a possibility all the same. If you ever want to talk, message or email me.

     

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  • imageMissLMS:

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this Lindsey. The pain of our m/c is still very fresh and while you may have not known you were pg for very long, it was a loss of a child and a possibility all the same. If you ever want to talk, message or email me.

     

    Thanks Lydia. I have been thinking about you. I hope you are doing ok.

    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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    TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
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