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April 2011 Moms
Have to say goodbye...
Hey ladies... so I went in for my ultrasound and NT screen today and there was no heartbeat. I had this problem earlier this year and altho it's a major fluke, it's happened again. I was supposed to be 11w3d and I was only measuring 8w and a few days... I am just kind of going with the motions right now, kind of numb to the whole situation. I just wanted to say thanks for all your talks, posts and getting to know me... I hope to be back on the bump soon... H & H pregnancies to all you ladies.
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Re: Have to say goodbye...
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I am so, so sorry for your loss.
As you say, it's very likely this "just happened" but if you want testing, you should pursue it and make sure your doctors listen to your concerns.
Best of luck to you.
DD 2.0 ~ 12/30/2013
Christian Alexander - 11/13/06
Amelia Rose & Owen Thomas - 3/29/11
I am sooooo very sorry for your loss. I cannot express to you how sad I am for everyone that is going thru this on here. I hope to see you back soon also. My thoughts are with you and your DH.
We talked about doing testing and we're going to go ahead and have it done. I did earlier this year as well. The baby had an extra chromosome and was XXY instead of XY... which I also found out means it would have been a boy, making the whole process even harder. Its lamost like like I can't process this loss because Im still stuck on the prior one...
My doc is also going to do some chromosome testing on my husband and I. She said that sometimes 2 perfectly normal people get together and have a baby that just doesnt work. Which BLOWS MY MIND, because I have a perfectly healthy and beautiful (almost 3yr old) daughter.... I am just so lost right now.