I can't help but be annoyed that he gets time out of the house with his buddies and anytime I get time out it's to go to the freakin grocery store or something house related. Then I feel horribly guilty for leaving DS and hold him all night.
I am with ya mama! Golf is a constant battle in our house. I struggle with the fact that DH works all day and when he has free time why doesn't he want to spend it with us? He says he needs it as a stress reliever...he works hard to support us (I just went back to work this past week and only PT so he is pretty much the sole supporter) so I try to give it to him. And the fact is I don't really want to be away from LO...when I have free time I want to be with DS and DH...and I think that is just a difference between men and women. I think your ticker said your LO is a month or two...as LO got a bit older I started to let it go more. And I didn't want to "force" him to not go because I didn't want him to be resentful.
I have been feeling the same way DH gets me time a lot but I do not. I feel guilty for feeling this way but it seems like every time I do get a break from the baby it is to do something that isn't for me.
Re: So my husband is golfing again tonight.
I have been feeling the same way DH gets me time a lot but I do not. I feel guilty for feeling this way but it seems like every time I do get a break from the baby it is to do something that isn't for me.