Postpartum Depression

So my husband is golfing again tonight.

I can't help but be annoyed that he gets time out of the house with his buddies and anytime I get time out it's to go to the freakin grocery store or something house related. Then I feel horribly guilty for leaving DS and hold him all night.
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Re: So my husband is golfing again tonight.

  • I am with ya mama! Golf is a constant battle in our house.  I struggle with the fact that DH works all day and when he has free time why doesn't he want to spend it with us?  He says he needs it as a stress reliever...he works hard to support us (I just went back to work this past week and only PT so he is pretty much the sole supporter) so I try to give it to him.  And the fact is I don't really want to be away from LO...when I have free time I want to be with DS and DH...and I think that is just a difference between men and women.  I think your ticker said your LO is a month or two...as LO got a bit older I started to let it go more.  And I didn't want to "force" him to not go because I didn't want him to be resentful. 
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  • I have been feeling the same way DH gets me time a lot but I do not. I feel guilty for feeling this way but it seems like every time I do get a break from the baby it is to do something that isn't for me.

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