TTC After a Loss

Multiple Loss Check-In

Sorry ladies - I'm a day late. If I have a hard time posting on time next week, I may consider changing the day of the check-in.

*~*Multiple Loss Checkin*~*
3ltlones   3 m/c 4 babies lost BFP 06/15/10
ade2be   1mc & 1 etopic    
Ad Interim   2mc    
aksVA   3 mc    
ambrandau2   1 loss & 4mc   BFP 08/09/10
armysis24   1 etopic & 1mc    
Ashley858   3mc    
 babes12    1 late loss & 1mc    
babygirlpriest   3mc (4 babies lost)  
BabyRN2009   2mc   BFP 1/11/10
bbhalphen   3mc    
BBHME   2mc & 1cp   BFP 06/06/10
bconnell123   2mc   BFP 06/12/10
BeachCole   2mc    
Becka1208   2mc & 1 loss    
butterfly843   2mc (3 babies lost)  
*Blessed*   2mc    
bmb84   2mc & 1cp    
CAB'smommy   2mc    
californiastars   1mc & 1cp    
candycane3t   2 losses   BFP 12/18/09
candylies   2mc    
carebear08   2 mc & 1 cp    
cfwinston   1mc & 1cp    
chutch831   2 mc    
ColindaP   4mc    
crystalknopp   1cp&1etopic    
csquared426   2mc & 1cp    
dandyelle   3mc    
denise_m   1 baby lost, 2mc & 1cp BFP 03/02/10
dondraandluis   3mc    
erinbmore   2mc    
erinrae1011   4mc    
Etta07   2mc   BFP 06/11/10
Erin RN   1cp & 1mc   BFP 02/15/10
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Re: Multiple Loss Check-In

  • Hey there!  How are you?  Can you add me too?  Thx!  =)
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  • Hey! I haven't posted on this in a long time, and I hope it's still ok if I do! This week has been pretty crappy. I found out today that I get to drive an hour to a different store tomorrow to work for who knows how long. I was really hoping I could have most of my Friday. But, even if I work a few hours, I'll be mad that I drove that far for a few hours of work. Blah.

    We didn't really have any summer projects. We're lazy folk around here. DH is working on cleaning out one of the upstairs rooms, he's supposed to be done by October so he better get moving... My summer project is to lay around the house and do nothing.

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    m/c 12/25/09 (5w5d) mm/c D&C 4/9/10 (11w1d) Take home baby 2/22/11
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  • I really want to see BFP next to my name to...BOOO!!!!!

    No summer projects here - we are always so busy in the summer...But lots for the fall! I want to get the house organized and start to renovate one room at a time...Ok truth be told I want to supervise the renovations one room at a time...

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  • Can you update my status to say 1 m/c, 1 late pregnancy loss (twins) and BFP 9/16/2010. Crossing my fingers and toes I won't add anything to that ever again except maybe a birth date.

    Mixed emotions here having gotten a BFP this morning. I've been missing my twin boys the past few days, and wondering what life would be like right now if they were here.

    Wishing I didn't have to work, but making the most of it. Trying to do things I want to do, like knitting, biking, hiking, swimming, and reading.

    My summer project was only really one thing. To read the entire Sookie Stackhouse novels series, and that was accomplished!

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    BFP #1: 07/10/2009, Missed m/c, D&C 08/12/2009
    BFP #2: 01/31/2010, Identical Twins died in utero due to TTTS, D&E 05/19/2010
    BFP #3: 09/16/2010, natural m/c 9/21/2010
    PCOS & Bocornuate Uterus Dx 1.4.2011
    BFP #4: 01/11/2011
  • Can you add me please?

    This week has been a tough one. I feel like my second loss has finally started to sink in. I'm exhausted, miserably sad...to the point where I just want to go hide under the covers and never get back up, i'm angry too. Like really angry, I wish I had something to stab (ok maybe hit, stab sounds a little harsh). But yeah, i'm pretty much just blah, big time. DH and I got in a fight earlier tonight so that certainly hasn't helped. And of course the fight was over how he hates seeing me sad and how I should try and find things to do that make me happy which comes out more like he hates seeing me so sad so really he wishes I'd just pretend I wasn't for his sake....BLAH, BLAH, BLAH! I can't stand my work right now either, with all these pent up emotions I truly am a horrible teacher and yet I have no choice but to keep going to work, especially if i want to keep my health insurance. I really feel trapped and have no options.

    As for summer projects, how about a spring project...we bought a new to us house last spring and completely gutted out the kitchen and redid all of it, new walls, new floors, new cabinets, countertops, applliances...the whole nine yards and it looks bada$$!!! But we seemed to have given up on the backsplash! I don't know why....I think we just got lazy, we have all the supplies but its still not done. All that is left is the edges of the backsplash and the grout I think ( I dont' know the proper tile vocabulary). So yeah, since late May we've been slacking big time. Maybe we'll get around to it this fall!


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    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • Hi Vicky,

    I've seen a few pgal births latly and though I'd update your list for you:

    meggiejo - DS in July
    candycane3t - (not sure what date)
    BabyRN2009 - DD Sept 16
    Staribeth - DS Sept 2
    vkbaby09 - DS Sept 10
     
    I'm doing alright. Just got back from a trip out to edmonton and pretty zonked. Got my amnio next tues and a bit nervous.
     
    As for summer projects... my garden and lawn are in serious need of some tlc but I doubt thats going to happen.
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  • imageshouldbworkin:
    Hey there!  How are you?  Can you add me too?  Thx!  =)

    No problem! I will add you.

    I'm sorry to ask this, but if your info is not in your siggy (which I will look at when I post this response), can you just send me a pm with your info?

    Thanks!

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  • imagevflipo:

    Hey! I haven't posted on this in a long time, and I hope it's still ok if I do! This week has been pretty crappy. I found out today that I get to drive an hour to a different store tomorrow to work for who knows how long. I was really hoping I could have most of my Friday. But, even if I work a few hours, I'll be mad that I drove that far for a few hours of work. Blah.

    We didn't really have any summer projects. We're lazy folk around here. DH is working on cleaning out one of the upstairs rooms, he's supposed to be done by October so he better get moving... My summer project is to lay around the house and do nothing.

    Of course it's ok if you still post! I love hearing from you!

    I'm sorry about your work situation - travelling an hour to work definitely sucks. I am in the same boat!

    I quite like your summer project!

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  • imageJayandTay09:

    I really want to see BFP next to my name to...BOOO!!!!!

    No summer projects here - we are always so busy in the summer...But lots for the fall! I want to get the house organized and start to renovate one room at a time...Ok truth be told I want to supervise the renovations one room at a time...

    I would love to see that too! In fact, I HATE how long this list is.

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  • imagejillcanada:

    Can you update my status to say 1 m/c, 1 late pregnancy loss (twins) and BFP 9/16/2010. Crossing my fingers and toes I won't add anything to that ever again except maybe a birth date.

    Mixed emotions here having gotten a BFP this morning. I've been missing my twin boys the past few days, and wondering what life would be like right now if they were here.

    Wishing I didn't have to work, but making the most of it. Trying to do things I want to do, like knitting, biking, hiking, swimming, and reading.

    My summer project was only really one thing. To read the entire Sookie Stackhouse novels series, and that was accomplished!

    Holly crap!! Congrats!!!

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  • imageLaurakat81:

    Can you add me please?

    This week has been a tough one. I feel like my second loss has finally started to sink in. I'm exhausted, miserably sad...to the point where I just want to go hide under the covers and never get back up, i'm angry too. Like really angry, I wish I had something to stab (ok maybe hit, stab sounds a little harsh). But yeah, i'm pretty much just blah, big time. DH and I got in a fight earlier tonight so that certainly hasn't helped. And of course the fight was over how he hates seeing me sad and how I should try and find things to do that make me happy which comes out more like he hates seeing me so sad so really he wishes I'd just pretend I wasn't for his sake....BLAH, BLAH, BLAH! I can't stand my work right now either, with all these pent up emotions I truly am a horrible teacher and yet I have no choice but to keep going to work, especially if i want to keep my health insurance. I really feel trapped and have no options.

    As for summer projects, how about a spring project...we bought a new to us house last spring and completely gutted out the kitchen and redid all of it, new walls, new floors, new cabinets, countertops, applliances...the whole nine yards and it looks bada$$!!! But we seemed to have given up on the backsplash! I don't know why....I think we just got lazy, we have all the supplies but its still not done. All that is left is the edges of the backsplash and the grout I think ( I dont' know the proper tile vocabulary). So yeah, since late May we've been slacking big time. Maybe we'll get around to it this fall!

    I have added you to the list.

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  • imageShemico:

    Hi Vicky,

    I've seen a few pgal births latly and though I'd update your list for you:

    meggiejo - DS in July
    candycane3t - (not sure what date)
    BabyRN2009 - DD Sept 16
    Staribeth - DS Sept 2
    vkbaby09 - DS Sept 10
     
    I'm doing alright. Just got back from a trip out to edmonton and pretty zonked. Got my amnio next tues and a bit nervous.
     
    As for summer projects... my garden and lawn are in serious need of some tlc but I doubt thats going to happen.

    Thanks Shemico!

    Were you gone to Edmonton for work or personal? I've never been out West.

    I hope your amnio goes well! I will be thinking of you.

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  • I had a blood flow study and a saline ultrasound done yesterday and both were normal so that was good news.  It's time this cycle to start trying again but I'm worried about getting pregnant before having a treatment plan in place but at the same time it's unlikely that I will get pregnant this quickly.

    I've been very sad lately and although it's only September I'm already dreading Christmas.  I don't want to hit my EDD and also the anniversary of my first miscarriage.  Can't I just skip the holidays this year?

    As for projects, I'd like to get our roof fixed before winter.  I'm not a do-it-yourself kind of person so I hire people to do my projects.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

    This Cluttered Life

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