DD is almost 3 months and she still does this everytime her dad hold her, but it's only if I am here. If it's just those two, she is fine, but if I am here, she starts screaming and will not stop until I take her.
My DD was the exact same way and my DH was so upset about it. It was around 3.5-4 months that she grew out of it and now she sometimes prefers him to me.
this was also true at our house until he hit about 2 months. ?i think it's because of the way my DH was holding him and his inability to soothe him. ?
now, DS needs soothing less and less and DH has figured out how to soothe, so it has gotten better. ?DS is now happy as a clam in DH's arms and they spend the mornings together when i go to work without any issues.
hang in there, it will get better. ?have you tried leaving the house so DH HAS to figure out a way to soothe instead of tense up??
Re: DS hates DH
I think it's a boy thing... my DS prefers me. My DD, however, is a TOTAL daddy's girl, so we're lucky in that way
It has gotten better than it was initially, though, probably because I was nursing DS for the first 6 weeks.
this was also true at our house until he hit about 2 months. ?i think it's because of the way my DH was holding him and his inability to soothe him. ?
now, DS needs soothing less and less and DH has figured out how to soothe, so it has gotten better. ?DS is now happy as a clam in DH's arms and they spend the mornings together when i go to work without any issues.
hang in there, it will get better. ?have you tried leaving the house so DH HAS to figure out a way to soothe instead of tense up??