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The Violence wheel

vahokiegirlvahokiegirl
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Someone sent me this link today ... and i realized over the last 4 years of our relationship my ex was doing all of this to me and it really got bad when i got pregnant .... it was kind of reassuring for me i dont know why ....  maybe cause ive been so stressed out with this whole situation... heres the page...   https://www.turningpointservices.org/Domestic%20Violence%20-%20Power%20and%20Control%20Wheel.htm
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  • sweetie0228sweetie0228 member

    It a powerful realization when you have hard proof you are not the crazy one.

    I love that wheel and hate it as the exact same time.

    I love it b/c of the freedom it gave me when I read my life like a laundry list of  horrible things that were wrong in my life

    I hate it b/c it was a laundry list of horrible things going on in my life at that time.

     

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  • PrincessFiona9PrincessFiona9 member
    DB did every single thing on there, and more. I am so disgusted that I put up with it for soo long and took him back so many times. Blech.
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  • Justtrying2Justtrying2

    WOW- thats the first time that I've been to that site and its depressing! My husband is guilty of at least 1-2 things on each of that wheel!

    Sweetie0228-- thank you for responding to my previous post. I deleted it because I know what I need to do. I am meeting with a lawyer tomorrow morning and I typed up a list of what our current situation is and my goals.

     

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