totally not a baby question - no flames!!!

bdakerman · September 2010

i am really just wondering if the stereotype about men looking at porn is true. do they all look at it? what are your thoughts?

i thought a place full of women would be a great place to ask. and pls all lets be honest and no flames!

thx

jlthompson19 · September 2010

You really can't say all or none, but I'd say a majority of men do.

I know my DH doesn't look online but that's b/c I won't let him b/c last time he did he crashed the computer-idiot. But he does have DVD's and magazines from way back when and sometimes I find them out in the basement family room-like when I was puking for 4 months straight in the 1-2 trimester and would have laughed at him had he suggested sex or the first 6 weeks pp. I really don't care.

sourpatchkids · September 2010

We are both Christians, and DH believes that it is wrong, so he does not look at porn.

erinoa319 · September 2010

My DH doesn't do porn. He said yea when he was like 15 he would, but hes just not into it anymore. I've never found anything porn related anywhere in our house or on the computer so I'm totally not worried about it and I believe him. Plus he always throws in there that he doesn't need it when he has such a beautiful wife, which is awesome to hear, even if I do feel uglier than sin currently.

kaylakaylakayla · September 2010

I would say the majority of men look at porn. At least in the US and Canada.
Of course a lot will deny they do, why tell your wife/fiance/gf that you like porn? A lot of men know better.

My husband likes porn. More so pictures than video.
It doesn't bother me one bit.

clintsprincess01 · September 2010

MY DH doesnt look at porn either. Just not something he likes. When he was younger I am sure he did.

BLykins16 · September 2010

kaylarosebrecht:

I would say the majority of men look at porn. At least in the US and Canada.
Of course a lot will deny they do, why tell your wife/fiance/gf that you like porn? A lot of men know better.

My husband likes porn. More so pictures than video.
It doesn't bother me one bit.

This.

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vjustice83 · September 2010

sourpatchkids:
We are both Christians, and DH believes that it is wrong, so he does not look at porn.

THIS

kelleylk · September 2010

vjustice83:
sourpatchkids:
We are both Christians, and DH believes that it is wrong, so he does not look at porn.

THIS

We are both Christians also. I pray that my DS doesn't look at that crap. I haven't come out and asked though.

GatorMrs_Esq · September 2010

kelleylk:
vjustice83:
sourpatchkids:
We are both Christians, and DH believes that it is wrong, so he does not look at porn.

THIS
We are both Christians also. I pray that my DS doesn't look at that crap. I haven't come out and asked though.

Seriously. Your DS is WAY too young to be looking at porn! Wink

karatechrissy · September 2010

erinoa319:
My DH doesn't do porn. He said yea when he was like 15 he would, but hes just not into it anymore. I've never found anything porn related anywhere in our house or on the computer so I'm totally not worried about it and I believe him. Plus he always throws in there that he doesn't need it when he has such a beautiful wife, which is awesome to hear, even if I do feel uglier than sin currently.

This exactly. Every aspect of what she said is same for me and my dh.

KRISTA555 · September 2010

sourpatchkids:
We are both Christians, and DH believes that it is wrong, so he does not look at porn.

This.

ETA: I'm a really laid-back person, and DH knows that he could come to me and tell me if he did look at it, and I wouldn't freak out at him. I don't approve of him smoking, but he still tells me when he slips and has one because he knows I won't get mad. I'm not his mommy.

Ashleygoo · September 2010

DH does, not too much, but enough that I dont have to decline him sex often. hahaha Whatever, doesnt bother me, he could do it every day for all I care, as long as I get sex when I want it. hahaha

driveshorses · September 2010

On occasion he has, I don't care and I certainly don't feel threatened by it. As long as it's not ammy porn by girls he knows personally then it's fine by me. We just don't sit down and pow wow about it.

astroMom · September 2010

He did occasionally when we were dating. I'm really against it, but I didn't freak. We came to an agreement that he would stop once we were married (and having sex). I gave him a boudoir photo album, so he can look at those, instead. :-D

jesslinnn · September 2010

kaylarosebrecht:
I would say the majority of men look at porn. At least in the US and Canada.
Of course a lot will deny they do, why tell your wife/fiance/gf that you like porn? A lot of men know better.
My husband likes porn. More so pictures than video.
It doesn't bother me one bit.

This. He has a Playboy subscription & sometimes I read it. They actually do have some interesting articles. :P

Parrot_momma · September 2010

My husband doesn't, but I do sometimes. *shrug*

mrs.kapow · September 2010

I haven't bothered to ask and the only thing I've found is him leaving my boudoir album out after I've been gone a while (I traveled a lot for work). That I'm ok with!

shanesfiance · September 2010

DH does occasionally. I'm okay with it, just don't really want to hear all about it, ya know? We watched some of a dvd he has one time, he thought I'd be into it, but it was sooo cheesy I just laughed. Of course, he assures me that he prefers sex with me but I'm not always around/able/etc. I think the vast majority of men do at some point. As long as they are honest/not going to great lengths to hide it, I am okay with it.

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