I haven't had a problem with milk stains but I spray Oxy Clean on poop stains before throwing it in the wash. It's a godsend!!! I don't know how much of LO's clothes would've been thrown out if it weren't for oxyclean!
Oxy Clean might help. I also don't have problems with poop or throw up stains with EBF. I just was them the same day and the stain comes out completely. I use Arm and Hammer Free and Clear Powder and it has baking soda. That might help too. GL
Re: Milk stains