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Update to WWTTCAL6+D?

I posted yesterday about how I had mature follicles on Clomid but still hadn't ovulated and didn't know if I should start the prometrium.  I called my doctors office and left a message, and the nurse called me back this morning.  She said my OB said to start the prometrium tonight.  When I asked why, she said she didn't know, that's just what the doc said.  Ugh.  I wish I could talk to the doc directly.  I just don't understand.   I don't get why I wouldn't wait to possibly O or get a trigger to make me O.  What a waste of a cycle.  I just want to go home and cry. 

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Re: Update to WWTTCAL6+D?

  • i'm sorry.  i hate that we can't talk to the docs over the phone. (hugs)
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  • Oh honey...that's rough.  I'm sorry.  
  • How frustrating! I'm sorry sweetie.

     It's weird your doc doesn't want to confirm an O with your temps at least...that's what my RE does.  

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  • That's rough, (((hugs))).  When you are up to it maybe you should consider calling back and telling this nurse that before you take anything you should get a better answer then "I don't know", if she doesn't know then she better find out for you.
  • I HATE it when the nurse doesn't know the answer to my question(s) and has to return my call after asking the doc. I'm always afraid that it'll be like the game of telephone when you repeat what someone else told you but it's inevitable that some of the message will be left out. Ugh! I'm so sorry that you are going through this.
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  • That really sucks.  I also think you should call back and not take "I don't know" for an answer.  In situations like this I always suspect that the doc just doesn't know what to do and wants it to be over with.  ((hugs))
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  • I'm sorry.  You can call & ask to have the dr call you back.  Or have your questions asked through the nurse.  Be your own advocate.  I'm sorry you're dealing with this :(.
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  • {{{{{Hugs}}}}} That sucks!!!
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  • Ugh, that is extremely frustrating - ((hugs)).  I *hate* when you can't get the information you want/need over the phone and have to wait for them to call you back.  Dammit, make me a priority and know the answers to my effing questions when I ask them.  If you don't know them, get me someone who does - NOW.  Sorry, mini-personal vent there.  Curl up with some ice cream, girl, you deserve it.  ((HUGS again))
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  • imageBabyMimi:

    How frustrating! I'm sorry sweetie.

     It's weird your doc doesn't want to confirm an O with your temps at least...that's what my RE does.  

    I thought it was weird too because I always ovulate on my own, so I would think that I would ovulate on Clomid.  I guess she's thinking I'm not going to O this cycle. 

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  • I'm sorry - that is so frustrating.

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  • imageERICA21779:
    That's rough, (((hugs))).  When you are up to it maybe you should consider calling back and telling this nurse that before you take anything you should get a better answer then "I don't know", if she doesn't know then she better find out for you.

    I second this!

    You really should be able to get at least a couple of minutes of your doctor's time, if you need it.  Cutting through the "middle woman" should make for a much shorter/clearer conversation!  

    I also totally understand if you just want to take the stupid meds, sob, & be done with everything.  :(

    Hope this ordeal has some resolution for you soon...  ((BIG HUGS)) 

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  • imageRunSchwartzRun:
    That really sucks.  I also think you should call back and not take "I don't know" for an answer.  In situations like this I always suspect that the doc just doesn't know what to do and wants it to be over with.  ((hugs))

    This. 

  • I"m so sorry.  Stop and have a margarita before you go home and cry.  I'll join ya.
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  • I'm sorry. ((hugs))

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  • So sorry ((hugs)). I hate when the dr doesnt call and the nurse doesn't know the answer to your question.

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  • imageCourt1:
    I'm sorry.  You can call & ask to have the dr call you back.  Or have your questions asked through the nurse.  Be your own advocate.  I'm sorry you're dealing with this :(.

    You should not feel bad about calling back and asking to speak to the Dr.  You should be able to express your exact concern (because it is completely valid) and get an explanation.  You put a lot into every cycle and would never want to throw one away by jumping the gun by a couple of days! I understand exaclty how you feel.  Call back and keep us updated!

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