Hi everyone...before I got pregnant, I was in the middle of a job search. Once I found out I was pregnant, I put the job search on hold. So now I am 18 weeks pregnant and am so bored at home! My husband works all day and I feel as though I am sitting at home with no purpose. Is anyone else out there in a similar position or have any suggestions?
Re: Pregnant,no job and bored!
At 18 weeks I personally would still be job searching. Just because you're pregnant doesn't mean you can't interview and find a job. I interviewed and landed a promotion at 16 weeks. If you are planning to be a SAHM then I can understand why maybe landing a job right now wouldn't make sense.
Perhaps you can find a part time job doing something fun that you enjoy versus looking for a career? Or, find somewhere to volunteer?
I agree! I would work, if possible. Pregnancy is lonnnnng and sitting home bored is not going to be fun. I started a new teaching position when I was 6 months pregnant with my 4th child. I ended up resigning when the baby was born to be a stay at home mom, but it was definitely worth it for me to work. My pregnancy flew by and my other children had a great Christmas because of the extra money!! When I was pregnant with my 3rd child, I was in between teaching jobs and still substitute taught. I can't imagine sitting home bored waiting for my baby to arrive. That is torture.
If you can't find a job, I would volunteer somewhere. Otherwise, hit the library. Kristin Hannah is a great author. Good luck!
I would go crazy sitting at home with nothing to do. I'd get a job somewhere like Starbucks just to keep me busy and bring in some extra cash 'til the baby comes, or maybe volunteer.
My sis was a stay-at-home mom too and she started a LunaMoms group for her town. www.lunabar.com/life/luna_moms_club
Also, you might check out www.lilaguide.com to find other moms in your area who are in your same situation. You might be able to shop together or start a walking/excercise group or do something fun like that.
The best thing I can think of though, is to do something you have always wanted to do, but never had the time. Like take a foreign language class at your local community college. If you register as a non-degree seeking student, a lot of times you pay for the application and for the registration, but then all your classes are free. So take an art class, learn a musical instrument, or something else that you've never had the time/money to learn before. You might find out you have a natural talent for something that you've never been able to try before.
Best of luck to you