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My mother has went off the deep end....really.

JakesBride07JakesBride07
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Started over my 16 y/o cousin who ran off and got married to someone she just met. My mom found it appropriate to compare my relationship with DH at 16 to my cousin. (Long story but cousin is a very troubled teen and basically got married because there was nothing better to do. And my mom loves to compare and bash me and DH because she is just unhappy and miserable.)

But I warned my mom when she started, to back off and let it go, that I didn't want to talk. She wouldn't take the hint so I hung up on her, she then calls back flipping out. And didn't like it when I pointed out that if she shoul be comparing anyone it should be her seeing as how she too likes to shack up and marry men she barely knows...

Fast Forward...mom decides to post a bunch of BS all over FB about the situation and about me and DH. (Apparently after she realized I defriended her, so I got all this info from a reliable resource.) But she has told the whole FB world that DH and I are so miserable with each other, and I really need to divorce him. And that I blame her for my father's death.

Kudos to DH's aunt who say all this and confronted the situation, but it's pretty messed up that I went from having my mom with me at ER, to having to block her number because she wouldn't stop texting, and calling. I even had to threaten to call the cops...made no difference.

She is pschyo no two ways about it. And even went as far as to tell me she never asked me for grandkids and that she wants nothing to do with them! WTF!

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  • siewekesgirlsiewekesgirl member
    WOW just WOW!
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  • JennyTomJennyTom
    So sorry sweetie.. nothing really to say, other than I relate and have not spoken to my mother in over a year.  And do not regret it. 
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  • wewannababywewannababy
    I'm so so sorry!  I hope that your Mom comes around and realizes how much she is hurting you and your relationship with her.  Hugs!!
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  • sheila1108sheila1108
    I am so sorry your are dealing with all that!
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  • k-martk-mart
    I'm so sorry. You shouldn't have to deal with all of that. Stay strong and I'm glad you have great people supporting you!
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  • lyse2143lyse2143 member
    I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. You  might want to block her instead of de-friending her so she can't see ANYTHING about you or on your page. She can't even find you if she searches for you.
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  • vanessagorcvanessagorc member
    OMG- I have no words either.  Im sorry u have to deal with this!
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  • Faith722Faith722 member

    Wow.  So sorry you're dealing with this.

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  • albjagalbjag member

    I'm so sorry hon.


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  • Sunshine05Sunshine05 member
    I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this from her, especially right now.  Try to block her out and stay as calm as you can about the situation.  You don't need all this stress in your life right now.  *hugs*
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    I don't even know where to begin.  I'm sorry your mother is such a pain. 
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
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  • MyShellyBellyMyShellyBelly
    Oh my goodness. So sorry you are having to deal with all of that :(
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  • Married071709Married071709 member
    I'm so sorry. :( Big hugs to you.  
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  • scooterqscooterq member
    Oh wow! I am so sorry.
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